Speaking before the Senate: exclusive video!
As many of you know, I have a keen interest in the process of healthy aging and have been deeply involved with the Martha Stewart Center for Living at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York City. That said, I was quite honored to receive an invitation from Senator Herb Kohl of Wisconsin, who heads the Senate Special Committee on Aging. I was asked to testify before this committee, which is examining the impending shortages of health professionals, including direct care workers, who are trained to care for older adults. Last Thursday, a small group of us, including Dr. Brent Ridge – our VP of Healthy Living at MSLO, Susan Magrino – my publicist, and Liesl Menning – my assistant, flew to Washington, DC to take part in this gathering. I am happy to tell you that the room was filled to capacity with Senators, panelists, and others in attendance wanting to learn more about this very serious health issue. Please read or listen to my speech and let me know your thoughts on this topic.
Martha Stewart
U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging
April 16, 2008
Chairman Kohl, Ranking Member Smith and members of the Committee: I appreciate the invitation to testify before you today and am honored to be here.
You have chosen a subject that is increasingly critical to our quality of life—not only for older Americans but for family members who care for them. I look forward to learning from the work of the Committee as it continues to examine this issue. The experience of the distinguished professionals on your panel today will be important as well.
I respond to your invitation today as a member of a family whose eyes were opened by personal experience—and to share what we have been learning at the Martha Stewart Center for Living at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York City.
My professional life has been centered on the home, the well being of the family and everything that these subjects encompass. When I began working in this area more than 25 years ago, the subject of homemaking as it relates to families was largely overlooked, though the interest was clearly broad and the desire for information strong. My colleagues and I soon discovered we were satisfying a deeply felt unmet need.
Today I see a similarly unmet need. Our aging relatives and the families who care for them yearn for basic information and resources. We all know this is a significant sector of our society: more than 75 percent of Americans receiving long-term care rely solely on family and friends to provide assistance. The majority of these caregivers are women, many of whom are also raising children. Often, these women are working outside the home as well.
I understand the challenges family caregivers face. My mother, Martha Kostyra, passed away last year at the age of 93. My siblings and I were fortunate that she was in good health almost until she died. Still, we came to know first hand the number of issues that needed to be managed.
First, it’s difficult, especially in smaller cities and rural locations, to find doctors experienced in the specific needs that arise with age. Think of all that this includes: the effect of medications on elderly patients; how various medicines interact with each other; warning signs for depression and onsets of other conditions increasingly common in the elderly. How do we ensure that they take their medications? How do we help structure our parents’ lives so they can live independently for as long as possible? And how do we support the generation of caregivers who devote so much of themselves to their parents’ aging process?
This only touches on the myriad of issues, of course. Worry is the backdrop for everything these families do: What if the parent falls? What if she leaves the burners on? What if he takes his medications twice—or forgets to take them at all?
Now I am learning even more about the physical, emotional and financial toll that the experience can exact. Caring for an aging parent or loved one can be another full-time job. In fact, 43 percent of baby boomers have taken time off from work and 17 percent have reduced hours to help care for an aging parent. They do this at a time when their expenses are rising. One recent study found that half of those caring for a family member or friend 50 years or older are spending, on average, more than 10 percent of their annual income on care-giving expenses. Many dip into savings and cut back on their own health care spending to cover the bill. Is it any wonder that family caregivers are at increased risk of developing depression, anxiety, insomnia and chronic illnesses?
In the Kostyra family, we were grateful to be there for my mother, who had given so much to us and was a well-loved presence in our lives and in the lives of her 15 grandchildren. Our experience in her final years and my resulting awareness of the issues Americans face is one of the reasons for the creation of the Center for Living. The goal of the Center, which is dedicated to my mother, is to help people to live longer, healthier, productive lives even as they age.
We have set a goal at the Center to use research and the practice of geriatric medicine to try to elevate the level of eldercare and its importance in our society. Did you know that there is currently one geriatrician to every 8,500 baby boomers? That’s clearly not adequate. We are also working to develop new tools and resources for caregivers. We are collaborating with a large number of organizations and motivated, experienced individuals, many of whom have been studying these issues for years. There are numerous devoted and knowledgeable people in this arena, and we hope we can all learn from each other.
This is a field that eventually impacts most families in emotional and encompassing ways. Yet sometimes it’s the simple solution that holds an answer. Not so long ago at the Center, a woman brought in her father, who had suffered a stroke two years earlier. After the stroke, he had been told he could never eat again and was placed on a feeding tube. He was devastated and depressed. He had spent his life as someone with a passion for good food, and his future looked bleak to him. At the Center, a doctor experienced in geriatric care asked the man to drink a glass of water. He did, without a problem. “If he can do this,” the doctor said, “he can eat.” This simple exchange improved the man’s quality of life immeasurably. And I’m sure it improved the quality of his daughter’s life, too, knowing that her father was happier.
I want to share with you three things I’ve learned from our work at the Center and that others may find useful:
We must make an effort to coordinate care. Most older Americans have several doctors. It’s important for these doctors to cooperate with one another and work closely with caregivers.
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It is important that we, as a society, recognize the stresses and challenges that caregivers face and support them as best we can. We want to ensure that their health isn’t undermined by the demands of eldercare.
We must encourage families to open up a dialogue now. Even if your older relatives are in good health, it’s important to plan for a day when they might not be.
I have always been a firm believer in the role of preparation and organization in progressing toward a goal. My concern today is whether our country and our over-stretched medical system can possibly meet the demands of 76 million baby boomers who will start turning 65 in the next two years. We are on the cusp of a health and care-giving crisis that must be addressed now. I know you recognize this and that is why we are here today. I thank you for your dedication to this important matter and for the opportunity to express my thoughts.







I'm so glad you (and Herb Kohl--I'm a fan of his as well) are bringing attention to this topic. I deeply fear that quality care may not be available for many elders in coming years--or may not be affordable for their families.
A question: does your view of healthy aging include discussion or endorsement of any sort of death with dignity plan?
Posted by: delia | April 22nd, 2008 at 12:57 am
Martha, thank you so much for expressing your thoughts on this very important issue. As the daughter of parents who have recently retired and are in the baby boomer age bracket, I have started to become more concerned about how their needs can be met.
Posted by: ercy | April 22nd, 2008 at 1:53 am
Thank You! It is a problem in our society that is a threat to the well being of the family and our way of life. Only you Martha have really given so much to the home structure and well being of our oldest unit of society. My mother was critically ill with acute bronchitis for 25 years and was hospitalized at least 4 to 5 times with respiratory failure. The stress placed on my family is unexplainable. Luckily my brother is an internist which greatly lightened the pressure for me and my father. I don't look at the illness as a burden but actually it was. However, I would greatly carry it all over again to still have her with us. I then had to face a depressed and mentally inapt aged father. He has passed away and now I'm single and at the age of 58. I was never married and realize I had been the caregiver of the emotional stress of these illnesses. I'm a retired teacher of 32 years and now it is therapy to me to listen to your daily program and realize how important to me the care and love of making a home is truly the essence of life. Thank you , Nan
Posted by: Nan Ashby | April 22nd, 2008 at 1:54 am
Martha, thank you so much for expressing your thoughts and addressing this issue with our government. As the daughter of parents that have recently retired, I often wonder how their needs can be met.
Posted by: ercy | April 22nd, 2008 at 1:56 am
caring for the elderly isn't an issue just in america, we face the same here in europe. some communities and cultures will not have to make big chances in order to care for their elderly as it is their custom that the elderly live within the family already.
the issue hits hardest the countries that could earlier boast with the highest standart of welfare by the state. in the future there just isn't going to be enough of us to pay taxes in order for the government to do their part at the level we are now used to.
we all, each and everyone of us, need to start thinking what we can do for our elderly. like martha says, preparation and organization are key elements of making anything work, this applies also to taking care of our elderly when the time comes.
let's give our elderly the love and nurturing they once gave us, which they certainly deserve getting back!
Posted by: liisamarja | April 22nd, 2008 at 2:10 am
Wonderful. I read the transcript. I agree, this issue is very important. I have seen so many elderly people and their families struggle to maintain a high quality of life in their later years, and to die with grace and dignity -- particularly when finances are tight. (Thank goodness for Hospice.)
I'm curious to see what actions the Senate committee will take. Good for you for taking a leadership role on this important issue.
Posted by: Patia | April 22nd, 2008 at 2:19 am
Hi Martha,
Congratulations on the work of your center. Does it offer alternative medicine as well as Western medicine?
After learning about Melody Petersen new book, "Our Daily Meds," I did a series of posts on my blog The Survive and Thrive Boomer Guide at http://boomersurvive-thriveguide.typepad.com.
The increased use of prescription drugs, due to their advertising on TV, is a concern. Have you addressed this in your work?
Rita
Posted by: Rita | April 22nd, 2008 at 3:15 am
Martha,
It is wonderful that you have such a platform to voice issues that go on not just in America, but all over the world. The speech read brilliantly. Well done.
Posted by: Pru | April 22nd, 2008 at 3:49 am
I watched the entire video web cast over on the senate web site and caught your full session with the senate hearings. I think you presented yourself well and touched on many important points that the other panelists didn't address in their statements. Having the experience of your own Martha Stewart Center for the Aging helped give them the senators a guideline of future findings once your center has reported back on their statistics down the line with seniors who seek help at your center. I wish more centers were available around the country so that more seniors could get the medical help and support needed. It will be a dire situation in our near future when our medical sources are overflowing with to many patients and not enough trained care takers and faculties to take care of so many needy people.
It is welcoming that you are working on a hand book I am sure there are other hand books out there for other states and health centers but it can be overwhelming when a family is faced with so many questions and no answers when it is time for their loved one to seek help and support and have no place to go.
Long term care is getting more and more expensive and dealing with what to do with a family member when the time comes can be very emotional under the best circumstances let alone not knowing what to do and where to turn and no guidance from our Govt on aworking system for millions of people to take advantage of.
In watching the hearing(80 minutes) I felt we are sorely lacking in being prepared for this on sought and we better get a plan a good working plan set in motion soon for our nation or we are going to be in big trouble trying to place all these patients with all the things they will need for quality care long term or short term we aren't ready and we need to be.
Martha I think you bought up some very important examples for these folks to learn from I just hope they listened and took notes and will go forward with some of the ideas and suggestions and get going on making improvements in our system and getting things moving for the wheels are slow in turning and where will the needed funds come from?
There is so much to be done but at least this is a beginning. Great to see you there you did well. I hope you will continue to pursue these important issues and keep people on their toes at MSCFTA.(Martha Stewart Center)
Pam from CA
Posted by: Pam from California | April 22nd, 2008 at 4:01 am
Thank you Martha for your work and continued support for this very important issue. I am a caregiver for both my father who has Parkinsons and Alzheimer and is bedridden and also care for my mother who is able to care for herself, but is showing the "signs of aging", forgetfulness, starting to "shuffle" along and just slowing down. I have had to give up a good part of my life to care for them. I know many people are in my same shoes. Life can be very difficult even if the family has managed to save for the future, but most of us haven't planned for the future of having to care for their parents. I am fortunate to have a very good doctor to provide medical care for both of my parents, but providing caregiving is a subject that is very difficult. Most of us don't have a lot of information on this subject. Again, thank you for making more people aware.
Posted by: Georganne Lynch | April 22nd, 2008 at 4:37 am
Oh Martha, your mom would have been so proud of you for speaking at the Senate hearing. God bless you.
Posted by: Ann | April 22nd, 2008 at 6:45 am
Hi, Martha,
Thanks for your words to Senator Kohl's Senate Special Committee in support of healthy aging, so important to all of us. I learned of this shortage of health care professionals trained to care for older adults when my mother became ill. As you say, coordination of care is critical as is help for caregivers themselves. Your mother would be so so proud of your words to the committee and the continued work of the Center for Living. Thanks again.
Happy Earth Day!
Kathy
Posted by: Kathy | April 22nd, 2008 at 7:22 am
Martha,
No one could represent the Senate comittee better than you in my eyes. We applaud your insite and your ability to enact change. Thank You and I pray your mission will succeed in change.
Posted by: Sue | April 22nd, 2008 at 7:57 am
Martha,
I am a nurse who loves the field of Geriatrics. Thank you for bringing attention to this subject. I would love to come visit your facility.
Posted by: Ruth | April 22nd, 2008 at 8:39 am
Hi Martha,
I think the work you have done in this area is so very needed and I am glad you have brought this to attention. I particularly hope that we can see centers in my country as well, as I feel that the quality of life so often is lessened in a person's later years simply due to the nature of the health and personal care that is available to them.
When my grandmother became ill and passed away a few years ago, it was heartbreaking to see her as someone who had reared a large family, kept a beautiful home (which her husband had built himself), loved her garden and took pleasure in making her family happy, it was hard to accept that she needed to live in a 'hostel' for the elderly because of the medical care she needed to have access to, until she eventually needed to go to hospital. Most places like this do not have the same heart, warmth and loving personal touches of the home that a person is used to and I think it is sad that people often need to accept much less than what they have had their whole lives when they become elderly because that is the only option available to them with the medical care that they need. I think it would also be wonderful to have options for the children/other family members to stay with their elderly relatives in the centers when they want to, like taking a holiday, and if the elderly person is still in good health, to allow them a kitchen and other facilities they want so that they can still entertain their families on visits.
Please keep up your excellent work and I wish you lots of success with this project.
Kind regards,
Posted by: cookiejar | April 22nd, 2008 at 8:59 am
The presentation of these facts is right on target. My mother was one of those individuals living in a small rural community with limited medical options. Yes she did receive medications that reacted with each other. Yes her life was never the same because of those medical over looks.
Yes, Martha and associates, you said what needed to said. As always thank you for understanding and presenting the truth.
Posted by: Margie | April 22nd, 2008 at 9:53 am
I think your center is going to be the perfect blueprint for more centers around the country so I am really glad that Senator Kohl invited you to speak to his committee.
The fact that your center is developing new tools and resources for caregivers is very interesting to me and I commend that you are also collaborating with other organizations and individuals. I am a caregiver for my sister who has emphysema, chronic bronchitis and failing kidneys so you can imagine the various doctors and medication she is on. I watch for reactions anytime she is on something new but I'm no doctor. Like who knew the Theodur she has taken for years for breathing would cause a reaction with a certain antibiotic and almost kill her? And why? She had lost weight and her Theodur dosage needed to be lowered. One time she said she had a backache so she put heating pads on and almost burned herself when she fell asleep. What she really had was double pneumonia.
Some think they are capable of taking care of themselves when they aren't and not everyone has a caregiver living with them. It is frightening to think of 76 million baby boomers needing help maybe all at the same time! Trish
Posted by: Trish | April 22nd, 2008 at 10:40 am
Thank you so much for testifying, Martha. And for the center you built. The lack of adequate healthcare for the aging is a crisis looming for every American, and most people are completely unaware of it. I hope that you and Dr. Ridge are successful in reshaping the landscape. We will all benefit from it - no matter our current age.
Thank you again.
Posted by: Linda Coran | April 22nd, 2008 at 11:20 am
Martha...so wonderful that you were able to speak to the Senate on this most important issue. We must all do our part to stay healthy and fit as we age. However, it's comforting to know that policies will be in place for those who need assistance and can live out their 'golden' years in as much comfort as possible.
Posted by: Sherey | April 22nd, 2008 at 11:39 am
Hi Martha,
I think what you're doing with the Centre for Living is wonderful. I am 31 and help to care for my grandmother, taking her to her appointments, doing her groceries and running errands when she needs me to. It can be taxing at times, but I find it very rewarding and I know how appreciative she is.
I think there are so many people who will benefit from your insights.
-Andrew
Posted by: Andrew Ritchie | April 22nd, 2008 at 11:45 am
Martha, you are my hero.. my parents are over 70 and I worry about their well being all the time..
Posted by: Susy | April 22nd, 2008 at 12:41 pm
Great idea Martha. I love your segments on fitness and health. I think they focus on more of the 40s, 50s, 60s demographic and I use that information for my loved ones. I hope you will open a center for living in California as well.
Posted by: ShopLittleGifts | April 22nd, 2008 at 1:35 pm
Dear Martha, There are many concerns facing Americans today and one of the top concerns is eldercare. I applaud you for addressing this issue with such passion, intelligence, and compassion. I also applaud this committee for choosing you to address this need in our society. Having been a care giver myself, I understand your interest in improving the quality of eldercare and ways to aid caregivers. Thank you once again for helping all of us to live our lives the best we can. Jan
Posted by: Jan Erickson | April 22nd, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Thank you so much for all your work in the field of aging, and specifically for your testimony and for your Center for Aging. I also would like to thank you for the work of Dr. Brent Ridge--I have appreciated his columns in the magazine--two come to mind in particular, because they addressed issues that I dealt with, with my mother, who passed away in February of this year, of complications from chemo treatment for her colon cancer. The first article was one of his first in the magazine, addressing the issue of patients not informing their doctors of health issues, out of some misguided idea that they shouldn't "bother" them with minor issues, or some sense of privacy or reluctance to talk about their bodily functions. The other article addressed colon cancer in particular, which unfortunately was very personal for both Dr. Ridge, and my mother and me. I would hope that these articles help all of us keep informed, and share our concerns with those that can help us in our goal of a healthy, fulfilled life.
Posted by: Becky | April 22nd, 2008 at 2:24 pm
You look a little nervous. Were they nice to you?
OK people get ready. Martha for president is next. Just kidding.
Posted by: Jason | April 22nd, 2008 at 2:47 pm
I am so happy you are bringing this to attention. Although my brother was not elderly, he was placed in a nursing home for recovery from a fall and a nurse laid him flat with his feeding tube and left him for hours to die after only being in the home for 9 days. His vitals were not taken for 7 days by anyone. The home was sued and my mother and sister-in-law won a piddly amount because the state of Missouri protects these nursing homes and allows them to close and open under new names, same owners. Missouri lets them file for bankrupcy and they reopen. We cannot get any help nor even an answer from our emails and regular mail from not one of our state reps, governor, or senators. Many people are dying in nursing homes and NOONE cares. The lobbiests are good friends and supporters of all our reps.
Posted by: Jo | April 22nd, 2008 at 2:57 pm
Hi Martha - you're thoughts so eloquently expressed to the Senate commitee sum up all my mother's cares and concerns she has shared with me. Although we lost my father aged only 63, his early onset demmentia and arthritis lead to him being cared for by many speicalists and this resulted in fractured and fragmented care. My mum alone knew all the ins and outs of Dad and what his needs were. Keep up The Centre for Living Martha - you are doing a great job. Its a model which needs to be copied the world over. God bless and God speed.
Posted by: Jo Allen | April 22nd, 2008 at 3:09 pm
Martha, I was called little Martha for years because my decorating flare and entertainment style was developed through your experience and advise.
The issue of caring for the aging is critical and with ongoing State and Federal budget cuts, it appears we are overlooking the children and the aging issues that must be addressed.
I am currently developing a business plan to start up a local non-medical home care service to reduce the concern of the family, allowing them to spend a little more time with their children etc.
Part of this idea is to provide service to the financially challenged, along with those who are house bound. While we are addressing the aging, where do we draw the line, a dear friend of mine who is 54 just experienced a massive stroke and will not be recovering. While doing the necessary research for this type of career change I have received great suggestions from friends and business associates and will look into your Center for Living as a resource.
Once again I find myself thanking you for your attention to details..."Little Martha"
Posted by: Susan | April 22nd, 2008 at 3:47 pm
Thank you for speaking out.
Your name and presence makes a big difference - thank you for using your celebrity to such fruitful ends.
With your public profile and resources, surely there is something you can do in the way of encouraging today's youth to focus on healthcare fields (rather than "hi-tech" paths)like nursing, doctoring, and finally research - in that priority. We are sadly lacking in professional resources in today's world as well as the near future.
Posted by: elena | April 22nd, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Hi Martha,
Thank you for sharing your speech to the committee. I live in Canada and we are facing similar challenges with providing care for the aging population and support and education for the caregivers. One of the challenges is that we also have an aging medical community. We do not have enough family physicians right now, and certainly not enough specialists prepared for the future of health care in Canada. I am happy that you and Dr. Brent Ridge also promote alternative health options- which is what I believe to be one of the many solutions to these problems. If fewer people were 100% reliant on traditional medicine and were educated on the benefits of alternative medicine, I believe patients and caregivers would all benefit. There are many solutions out there so I thank you for advocating so strongly to help your community.
Sincerely,
Kimberley Allan
Posted by: Kimberley Allan | April 22nd, 2008 at 5:23 pm
Thanks Martha. Your parents would be so proud of you. Of all the good you've done, I hope this is your legacy. My folks are 80 and 84, and it's challenging at best to see to their care. I wish you only success.
Thank you for using your power to change the world, for good.
Posted by: Denise in CA | April 22nd, 2008 at 5:49 pm
Some how my name got mixed up with the name Jason. I wrote about my brother in a nursing home in Missouri. I wanted to add one important fact: MISSOURI DOENS NOT REQUIRE NURSING HOMES TO CARRY LIABILITY INSURANCE. There is no protection in these homes.
Posted by: Jo | April 22nd, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Happy Earth Day, Martha! I love how much you have been promoting Etsy. I joined because of you and would love it if you would ever like to feature my shop: http://10oneworld.etsy.com Thanks for all you do!
Posted by: Jennifer Stewart | April 22nd, 2008 at 7:08 pm
Martha, thank you so much for speaking on the behalf of family members everywhere that find ourselves in this situation.
I have experienced this firsthand, as you have. I am a nurse by profession and balancing care of both elderly parents while holding down a full time job as a single female took its toll on our family during the 12 years prior to their deaths.
The work you are doing with the Center is excellent and what you said in Washington is exactly what they needed to hear.
I always liked your segments with your dear Mom and miss seeing her with you.
God Bless You!
Betty
Posted by: Betty Klein | April 22nd, 2008 at 7:55 pm
I worked for geriatricians for a while and one thing that is usually not mentioned is the attitudes of doctors, particularly new ones, towards senior citizens. One thing that the Hartford Foundation seeks to do is improve health care for seniors by educating medical professionals--doctors, nurses and social workers, who come in direct contact with them. Teaching new doctors and fellows the unique facets of treating the aging and aged will help. Heard too many stories of residents complaining about elders being a pain to deal with. What do you expect with that attitude?
Me, I'm taking care of myself. Period.
Thanks, Martha, for bringing this to the forefront.
Amy
Houston, TX
Posted by: Amy | April 22nd, 2008 at 9:06 pm
Dear Martha, Thank you so much for your work to bring attention to the health care needs of our older citizens. Our nursing college has several programs in place to increase student competencies in care for the older adult. Please visit our website at http://www.mcn.ilstu.edu to learn more about these programs. We are beginning a Gerontological Nurse Practitioner program in the fall and have found the reception of primary care clinics and medical centers to hiring this type of specialist is lukewarm. What is needed is a grass-roots public effort to bring attention to the need for these specialists. Families must demand that the health care system hire experts in gerontology. Our older adults deserve nothing less. I invite you to visit our College and speak with our faculty about the work they are doing in aging. I know you will be impressed.
Best Wishes
Posted by: Brenda Recchia Jeffers, PhD, RN | April 22nd, 2008 at 10:48 pm
Martha, Thank you for your efforts to bring insight into this growing problem. My dad is in a nursing home. His care is difficult and time consuming. I feel there is little respect for your elders there. I recently visited and heard a nurse at the front desk approach asking for help with "Mrs. Jones" who was having trouble with a bowel movement. The nurse wanted to go on break. I knew "Mrs. Jones" as a child and can tell you she was always dressed to a T and would have been upset over this nonsense. I feel so sorry for my dad. He was such a great man with a natural smile and a swing in his step. I feel powerless to make his life better. He would have never settled with me being where he is. But, he is there and I pray for his care.
Posted by: Kelli | April 23rd, 2008 at 12:04 am
Martha:
Thank you for speaking at the hearing. You touched on all the key issues facing the elderly and their caregivers in your speech to the Committee. I pray that people and our government will listen.
I'm glad that you are validating the decision of family members who choose to care for their parents at home. It's almost taken for granted these days that everyone will eventually wind up in a nursing facility, when often, it can be avoided if someone is willing to care for them at home.
I am single and my mother, who is in her 70s, and in fairly good health lives with me. I have 2 brothers and a sister, who are all married with children, so the caregiving falls to me. Although, I am glad to be able to give back to my mother by taking her to all her doctor's appointments, etc., it can be overwhelming and at times, a full-time job.
My mother has osteoporosis and has fallen twice in the past several months, as well as needed medical attention for other conditions. She is still high-functioning, but it is stressful not knowing what can happen when I have to leave her alone.
Last year I started keeping a medical journal which I bring to all her doctor visits, labs, etc., so I can refer to my previous notes when asking questions or clarifying diagnosis. The doctors are often overworked, which only adds to my stress in wondering whether something might be overlooked in the coordination of care between physicians and the interaction of medications, as you brought out.
It is so important that our elderly parents have an advocate (usually a family member) who can ask the right questions and clarify answers. Self-education is also key.
Thanks so much for all you do with the Martha Stewart Center for Living; what a beautiful legacy to your Mom.
What goes around, comes around Martha and someone will be there for you someday.
P.S. It's interesting to note how many of the people who regularly leave comments on your blog have been in or are in a caregiving situation.
Joseph
Posted by: Joseph Brennan | April 23rd, 2008 at 12:20 am
BRAVO Martha! Nice platform! Thank you.
Posted by: Jennifer Fancher | April 23rd, 2008 at 5:35 am
Dear Martha: I wanted to extend my condolences regarding the death of dear Paw Paw. I too, lost a dear friend of 14 years, Contessa; my little "Found at the Pound Puppy". I know you have many wonderful years of memories of Paw Paw. I always enjoyed seeing him on your programs; my favorite were of him walking around in the garden with you, surveying his "kingdom". My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Christian Beckler
Minneapolis
Posted by: Christian Beckler | April 23rd, 2008 at 8:51 am
I'm so proud of you Martha for speaking up. Not only the elderly will be facing a huge problem w/care but Physician's face problems on a daily basis just trying to do their job. Healthcare reform is a tough issue that needs to be addressed by a very high level of experience. Not only that, the level of care given by a family physician should be elevated possibly to the level of Internal Medicine. Physician's have a real crisis on their hands being paid for what they do. Much of the time the elderly cannot afford to pay for extended healthcare that many times is necessary and insurance won't pay. We must find a way solve some of these huge healthcare issues. The list of issues won't get any smaller.
Posted by: elizabeth | April 23rd, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Thank you Martha for showcasing this critical issue. I lost both my parents within the last 9 months and I participated first hand in their care. There is a HUGE need for resources, help, etc. Thank you, thank you!!
Posted by: Mica | April 23rd, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Dear Martha,
What questions do you need to ask your parents? I don't know any person who wants to be in a nursing home, but there sure are a lot of elderly living in them.
Sincerely,
Patty K
Posted by: Patty K | April 23rd, 2008 at 6:08 pm
It is wonderful that so many are thinking ahead to the golden years and what level of care will be available then. However, for those of us without any kind of medical coverage now, speaking for myself, I will be surprised if I make to that age. I am 54 and have diabetes, high blood pressure, glaucoma, high cholesterol, GERD and hypothyroid. The company my husband retired from went bankrupt and there went my health insurance. I know I can get treated at an ER for an acute situation, but wellness visits are another story. BlueCross will cover me - for only $800 a month! If as a first step a solution isn't found to providing care for all of us who do not currently have coverage, there won't be so many to worry about growing older; we'll have passed away before then from some other disease that we couldn't afford to get treatment for.
Posted by: Christina T. | April 23rd, 2008 at 8:49 pm
yes caring for your parents is hard, I dont even want to talk about what I went thru with mine. I will however add a VERY IMPORTANT ELEMENT you left out- the lawyers. Sharks? No difference at all except of course one species is supposed to be HUMANE. I do believe Animals are much more so.
Posted by: theresa | April 24th, 2008 at 6:35 pm
Please continue to be the voice for so many who are not able to have the ear of our Congress. Thank you for your time, energy and money to help raise the awareness for the needs of those who care for their loved ones as they grow older. The world of work is changing in many ways that demand our attention that includes your efforts. Please stay on to be heard loudly that elder care is a job (with a description) and consumes time, energy and money of the caregiver.
Again, THANK YOU!
Blanche S Katz
Posted by: Blanche S Katz | April 30th, 2008 at 11:33 pm