Eerie, but fascinating graveyards near my home in Bedford
One year ago, I took you on a Halloween adventure through the cemetery located at the St. Matthews Church in Bedford, NY. I received so many interesting comments from that blog, so I thought it would be fun to continue the tour. As it turns out, there happens to be thirty cemeteries located throughout Bedford. Some are tiny family plots, overgrown and neglected. Others, like the St. Matthews and the Old Bedford cemeteries are located in high traffic areas and are maintained nicely.
Cemeteries are considered by many to be eerie places, however, I find them fascinating. There is much to be learned about the history of an area by reading old grave markers, such as family lineage and how young or old people were when they passed away. I was very happy to hear from the Bedford Historical Society that there is now a committee, which has been working on clearing overgrown cemeteries and on properly cleaning and restoring many of the ancient headstones. I feel it's so important to preserve history in all its forms. Please enjoy this year's jaunt through the cemeteries and I wish all of you a creepy and spooky happy Halloween!
1 This little cemetery was for the Miller family. According to records, there are 59 graves marked with field stones, with the oldest one dating to 1804.
3 In memory of Sally Miller, who died at 43 years of age. Sally was the wife of Abijah, which is a name of Hebrew origins meaning 'God is my father.'
7 It looks like this says - In memory of Mercy, wife of Enoch Clason who died April 5, 1830 Aged 80 yrs 2 mos.
22 This is the gate to the Old Bedford cemetery. There are 191 graves marked with field stones. The oldest grave, which is unmarked, is of Rev. Thomas Denham from 1689!
25 Little Willie, age 1 Year 5 months 7 Days, 'Ere sin could blite or sorrow fade, Death came with friendly care, To heaven the opening bud conveyed and bade it blossom there'







My daughter and I and her fiance walked the Freedom Trail in Boston this year and my daughter and I were both fascinated by all the old grave markers you can find as you walk this Trail. They are definitely fascinating and it was interesting to find out about all of the different designs we saw on the grave markers. Love this blog!
Posted by: Cathy | October 30th, 2009 at 5:44 am
My mom did genealogy, so a lot of my childhood included walking through graveyards to find old family members. I love that you took the time to write down the names and dates....it would be interesting to know their stories wouldn't it?
Posted by: Morgan | October 30th, 2009 at 9:56 am
That's interesting about the roses being symbolic about someone cut down in the prime of their life. There is an amazing grave marker I found that was a cross entwined with stone passionflower vines and topped with a crown of thorns, with a single stone rose at the base. Very unusual looking and beautiful.
http://www.stargazy.org/photos/christchurchcemetery/38.jpg
Posted by: Heather S. | October 30th, 2009 at 10:17 am
The neat thing about some of the old graves, other than the oldness of them is the info on the headstones that informs everyone how they died, like 'the explosion of gun powder'. I've often walked past a grave, read the inscription on the headstone and then wondered how the person died. I know it's just life - we live, we die, but I get curious, especially if the person is rather young. Thanks for the ‘eerie’ tour and I look forward to more pictures after you have visited the other 29 burying grounds. That’s a lot of burying grounds! Have fun on Halloween Martha. I know how much you enjoy it. Trish
Posted by: Trish | October 30th, 2009 at 10:53 am
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Believe It Or Not
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Being Irish my name could be
Mary, Molly or Coleen, see
Instead, its after a Saint
And I can't even really paint
But what brings chills to my bone
My Mother got it off a tombstone!
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.Happy Halloween
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Its hard to smile while screaming - but try, you
can work it out.
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Posted by: celia stock | October 30th, 2009 at 11:34 am
Nice fall/autumn scenery, great photography and interesting and unique headstones. Martha, you have the talent to make anything interesting. Thanks
Posted by: Edna/HandmadeDiva | October 30th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
These places are indeed interesting and tell stories all their own. I find it remarkable how long folks lived back in the 1800's when one would think otherwise (as medicine has come a longgg way since then!). My town has 3 public cemeteries, with the oldest dating back to the 1830's, and the newest being recently opened around the 1970's. This newest offering to the community allows no above-ground markers, but personally, I prefer the more conventional setting such as Bedford's and our older cemeteries.
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I probably mentioned last year how my husband restored a small-ish cemetery in his hometown in rural Fulton County, PA. He was an avid member (and now a life member) of the historical society there, and repaired many stones on which time had simply taken it's toll, but there had been evidence, too, of vandalism. It was quite an undertaking but equivocally a high point in many of his life accomplishments thus far.
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Enjoy 'your' day, Martha - the holiday you love the most!
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Posted by: Cindy Bricker | October 30th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Hello Martha we have an old grave yard behind the airport in my city, and the rumor was if you jumped over the third wall you wouldn't come back!!
The name of it is Spider Gates! Spooky. Best Falling leaves to you, and to MSLO!! Happy that you share this. Kristin.
Posted by: kristin svens | October 30th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
My sons senior project when he was in high school was to volunteer at a historic cemetery in town. We went there on late afternoon and weekends to write down what is on each grave, how it needs to be restored and what ever else it needed. It was a blessing. To see the history that lied there was amazing. So when we travel and we see a graveyard on the side of the road, we sometimes stop and visit. History comes in all forms and graveyards are a great source. Nothing spooky there!
Posted by: Mona C | October 30th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
I absolutely love these pictures, and what a truly lovely yet spooky graveyard you went to! Thank you so very much for posting these, and all your blogs. I enjoy seeing the pictures of your adorable pets the most. I wish you a very spooky and happy Halloween to you!
Posted by: Holly Hall | October 30th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
Halloween submits us to the fragility of life, reminding us to dig deep (literally)into the past and harness that energy in our present.
I'll never forget a trip to Singapore when I was a little girl. We visited a cemetery overlooking the water filled with the deceased of war and exploration. The stones tilted and sunk in the soil, yet the energy emanating from them was profound. You could see history clawing its way to the surface, demanding to be remembered!
So telling that the headstones often marked the # of months and days on earth. Every moment was a blessing.
To life!
Posted by: Lydia | October 30th, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Hi Martha, This was a fascinating blog about the graveyards near your home in Bedford. I really enjoyed the last blog on this subject and this one went even deeper in information about the gravestones. So much can be learned by the gravestones. The map of the area is really superb and I would find it fascinating to visit everyone of those sites, like you suggested. What a great time to share such information with us. Thanks. Happy Halloween. Jan
Posted by: Jan Erickson | October 30th, 2009 at 11:23 pm
These are all so beautiful, great care was taken when making these beauties and they should be treated with the same care as an antique. Thank you to the preservation societies who are maintaining these precious links to our past.
Posted by: Christine | October 31st, 2009 at 12:20 am
HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE! I hope you all have a safe and spooky Halloween, and thank you very much Martha for posting these videos! I hope you post some of your Halloween!
Posted by: Holly Hall | October 31st, 2009 at 3:56 pm
I enjoy going to old graveyards and reading the stones. It's amazing to see the dates of some of the oldest ones. We have a Confederate cemetery in Elmira, NY. We have a ghost named Walter who haunts the technology at our Community Arts Mansion, who appears to be a Confederate soldier. Phones and Fax machines go crazy because of him. I used to be an art teacher and had my students do grave stone rubbings. We have Mark Twain and his whole family in our cemetery.
Posted by: Felicia Salamendra-Dvornicky | October 31st, 2009 at 4:56 pm
My husband and I have had many fun times visitiing cemetaries as well. On Veteran's Day one year, we had the most interesting time when we heard a Civil War band play Civil War instruments and a speaker talked about the soldiers who were buried there, how they died and their tombstones. Fascinatiing history!
Posted by: Kandy Maharas | October 31st, 2009 at 5:59 pm
This was very interesting. Thank you!
Posted by: Mark in Chicago | November 1st, 2009 at 10:35 am
what an awesome blog! I have done my Genealogy for years and love cemeteries, we lived across an old Missouri cemetery once, and wished I had taken photos...I got to see my family crypts in Dresden Germany and then I discovered my paternal side where Americans, my Grandmother was Georgianna Ives from the clock/printer "Ives" Hartford Connecticut...someday I would like to go to their cemetery...they had a great deal to do with the establishment of the Colonies....love all the photos here, well done...great subject!
Posted by: delia | November 1st, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Thanks Martha! I sometimes thought my fiance' and myself were the only ones who enjoyed visiting cemeteries for their historical value! It is so interesting and beautiful and dark/spooky.
Beautiful photography as well.
Posted by: Holly G. | November 2nd, 2009 at 12:12 am
Should you be interested, I have an amazing photograph of a spirit walking towards me at the Old Bedford Cemetery. My favorite, also in Bedford is Buxton Cemetery. There you will find Russian royalty (perhaps they are responsible for the Egyptian Mau's found in Bedford?) This cemetery is v-e-r-y active. I even have a ghost dog(!) picture from there..... it's a most wonderful cemetery to walk around and enjoy. Thank you for sharing all your wonderful knowledge!
Posted by: Karin | November 3rd, 2009 at 1:38 am
My goodness, to think that those early ones have survived the weather, heat, and cold for so many years and still be as legible as they are. It's amazing! Thank you Martha for a fascinating peek. I also find graveyards fascinating and quite peaceful.
Karin - I'd love to see your spirit photos...could you post a link?
Posted by: Mary Collings | November 4th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
i believe the face in the stone of photo #40 is the deaths head angel.
Posted by: Jeanine | November 22nd, 2009 at 11:27 pm
Thanks Martha for sharing with all of us who have enjoyed your contribution to homemaking and history in your efforts to preserve and share what you've learned over the years. I've enjoyed your times with this since I was a new bride back in the 60's.
Posted by: Suzanne Riviere | December 13th, 2009 at 8:00 pm
Martha,
Would love to give you a tour, perhaps with a few Farmer's Club members!
Let me know.
Our committee is active, and restoration activities are beginning.
John
666-4745 (Historians office)
241-0407 (home)
turbo471@gmail.com (home e-mail)
Posted by: john stockbridge | February 8th, 2010 at 7:29 pm