Farewell to my beautiful horse, Martyn
Dear readers:
Last week we posted a blog about Martyn, one of my five Friesian horses. We stated that Martyn was suffering from a degenerative disease that had caused the collapse of his rear fetlocks. Martyn has received extensive treatment from several very qualified equine veterinarians and has been lovingly cared for by my stable manager, Betsy Perreten and her assistants, during his ordeal.
That blog, however, did not tell the whole story - only that he had the problem and was under careful supervision. In fact, the decision had been reached that this wonderful horse needed to be put down and that is what happened a week ago, at the farm. He had a very peaceful end and we will miss him terribly. But, we are happy he is no longer in pain and we certainly hope that none of the other horses suffer a similar fate. Thank you all for your very caring and informative emails, letters, and comments and rest assured that all of the animals at the farm are treated humanely and with great love.
1 This was one of my last photos with Martyn, he was one of my five Dutch Friesian geldings at Cantitoe Farm.
2 Martryn was always very curious - always looking for a good snack - I just happened to bring some crusts of Balthazar bread to the stable - a favorite treat.
3 He was such a beautiful horse!
Dear Martha,
Please accept my condolences. The loss of a beloved animal is a heartbreaking thing, and I too have lost some dear Equine friends over the years. I can plainly see how beloved all of your animals are to you, and Martyn could not have had a better life, or a better chance to have a longer, less painful life with anyone else on Earth.
With sincerest admiration, and deepest sympathy,
Angela M.
Posted by: Angela | January 8th, 2010 at 2:43 am
He was a beautiful horse! I am deeply sorry for your loss although it is better that he is out of pain. My condolences to you, Betsy and the assistants. May his memory live on in your hearts.
Posted by: Marcy | January 8th, 2010 at 2:52 am
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that you provide the most amazing care and love for all of your animals. They seem to be more than just pets to you, but a part of your family. My heartaches for you, Betsy, Dolma, and everyone else in your world that had the pleasure of knowing and loving Martyn. Just let it be a small comfort that you did all you could do to make his life a happy life. My thoughts are with all of you and Martyn.
~Shannon
Posted by: Shannon | January 8th, 2010 at 2:55 am
Martha as a horse lover I am deeply saddened to read this news. I have such compassion for horses. This must be a very sad time for you, I'm so sorry to hear about Martyn's passing. May he RIP and live on in beautiful memories with you.
Posted by: Tyler | January 8th, 2010 at 3:40 am
How lucky he was to have a caring loving home. Thank you for taking such excellent care of beautiful Martyn.
Posted by: Ann Chamberlain | January 8th, 2010 at 3:43 am
So sorry Martha
Pam From California
Posted by: Pam From California | January 8th, 2010 at 4:23 am
Thanks for sharing Martha! He was a lovely animal.
Posted by: Traci | January 8th, 2010 at 4:49 am
Dear Martha,
Having had to send animals across the Rainbow Bridge, I know it is not an easy decision to make. But as we are their caretakers, better we ensure they have a good life rather than to suffer. Well done on your decision to euthanize Martyn, and bless you for caring.
Alma Lou
Posted by: Alma Lou, Amman, Jordan | January 8th, 2010 at 5:58 am
My sympathies to you and all those who loved Martyn. He was a beautiful horse
Posted by: MayRay | January 8th, 2010 at 6:01 am
Hello. I just read about your horse, and I am really very sorry. I'm italian, and I live in a beautiful small town near Parma. My oldest daughter Sara, 10 years old, adores horses, all her life turns around horses, and she passed her love for this wonderful animal to the rest of us. She doesn't own one yet, but by the end of this coming spring we are going to buy one for her. So, I can only try to imagine what you are going through. Please receive our best wishes and a smile from my family and me. Lori
Posted by: Lori Russo | January 8th, 2010 at 6:25 am
Well Martha you sure know how to get someone depressed at 5 am. I look forward to your Blog every morning with my cup of coffee and when I saw this I felt sick to my stomach.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I'm sure he received only the best of care and love from you and your staff.
Well I guess I'll go check out the Daily Wag I hope that can put a smile on my face.
Ann
Posted by: Ann | January 8th, 2010 at 6:27 am
Martha...I am SO SORRY. He was a beautiful and elegant animal, and I know from experience how hard it is to help a loved animal die...with grace.
Godspeed Martyn.
Posted by: linda@LimeintheCoconut | January 8th, 2010 at 6:30 am
Dearest Martha, so sorry to read about Martyn. I am giving my doggies a bigger hug than usual and sending you comforting wishes from Lincolnshire, England. Our animals give us so much without realising it and they do leave a huge hole in our hearts when they have to depart. With love x
Posted by: Sally Ann Schofield | January 8th, 2010 at 6:31 am
Dear Martha,
I imagine your pain....when my dog died, I cried for months !!!! but every time I look at his photos, he is always there with me, I will never forget his eyes...
Martyn's eyes were full of expression. Keep the good memories...He is still there with you....
Posted by: Cristina | January 8th, 2010 at 6:33 am
I am so sorry for your loss. Martyn really was a beautiful animal. He really responded to you. I am sure you will miss him.
Posted by: Barbara | January 8th, 2010 at 6:45 am
I'm so sorry to hear about Martyn. It is heartbreaking to say goodbye to a friend.
Posted by: Lynn from For Love or Funny | January 8th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I am tearing up. I had a premonition about it just this very early snowy morning. I looked at these pictures so many times just again last night. They were striking to me as well as they brought back so many good memories from 2009 of Martyn. I extend my prayers and sympathy to you, Betsey, and her assistants. His character and beauty just came through his photos...Martyn was a blessing. May he rest in peace. Amen.
Posted by: Teresa Touey | January 8th, 2010 at 7:19 am
I am so sorry for your loss. It is always so difficult to say good-bye to a friend.
Posted by: Elaine | January 8th, 2010 at 7:31 am
I am so sorry, Martha. It must have been very difficult to go through such an illness with Martyn, we all know he could not have received better care, or had a better life than the one he had with you.
Posted by: Michelle | January 8th, 2010 at 7:45 am
Dear Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know you have a deep love for all your animals and this must be very hard for you. Thank you for allowing us to get to know Martyn and all your other animals.
Posted by: kathy | January 8th, 2010 at 8:13 am
No horse could have had a more loving and nurturing owner or home. Your love for the animals that share your life is inspirational, as is everything that you share with us. Thank you and comfort to you.
Posted by: Lisa | January 8th, 2010 at 8:16 am
I understand your sadness and loss over such a beautiful horse. We are never prepared for the feelings we have until the death of one of beloved creatures...
Posted by: krista weatherd | January 8th, 2010 at 8:26 am
So sorry to hear of the passing of Martyn...... He was a beautiful horse. I know he was much loved and had a wonderful home with you.
Posted by: Shjirley Hawksby | January 8th, 2010 at 8:33 am
I'm so sorry! I know how hard it is to choose to put a beloved animal down.
You did the right thing. He is no longer suffering.
Posted by: Fantastyk Voyage | January 8th, 2010 at 8:41 am
I am so very sorry
Posted by: LB Howell | January 8th, 2010 at 8:45 am
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. When I read the post before Christmas I didn't have a good feeling about it but I know that he had a wonderful life with you and Betsy and all of the fine people that cared for him. He is at peace now for sure and I hope you and your staff find some peace in knowing that.
Posted by: Shelly | January 8th, 2010 at 8:51 am
Dear Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about Martyn. I know how much you love each and every creature on your farm. It is never easy to say farewell to such a loving part of your life. Be well.
Kim & Bunny in N.J.
Posted by: Kim in N.J. | January 8th, 2010 at 8:52 am
Dear Martha - I am so sorry for your loss! I have 6 animals and they are so much a part of my family as Martyn was a part of your family. Thankfully he is no longer suffering, and he had a peaceful end.
Posted by: maria | January 8th, 2010 at 8:52 am
Dear Martha,
Our deepest sympathy and condolences. Thank you for sharing Martyn with us, your last blog about Martyn last Christmas touched my heart how you cared and love your horses.
Rest in peace Martyn and God bless you always Martha.
Your blog admirer,
Mappi
Osaka,Japan
Posted by: Mappi | January 8th, 2010 at 9:01 am
Farewell dear Martyn.
Posted by: Melissa in Canada | January 8th, 2010 at 9:02 am
I am very sorry for you loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. I am the owner of a kind, gentle, loving German Shepherd Dog who has been a member of our family for 12 years old. I know she is at the 'geriatric' stage of her life but it doesn't make it any easier to see her in her 'elderly' years. I have seen through the years how important your animal family is to you and I know you always take the very best care of them.
Posted by: Dana Crespo | January 8th, 2010 at 9:10 am
Martha, I am so sorry to hear about Martyn. He was absolutely beautiful. He was lucky to have you as his owner. I'm sure his life on your farm was full of love and happiness.
Posted by: Suzan | January 8th, 2010 at 9:18 am
dear martha
my condolences with your loss of Martyn, a very beautiful horse. martyn made you look very good and vice versa.
lucky horse he was!
sincerely,
luc raes
Posted by: Luc | January 8th, 2010 at 9:45 am
He was a fortunate horse to be loved and cared for by you and, in return, gave you such gifts. My sympathy.
Posted by: Vicki Dinsmore | January 8th, 2010 at 9:53 am
Oh Martha, that is so sad, but for the best I'm sure. He was beautiful!
Posted by: Julie | January 8th, 2010 at 9:54 am
Martha, I am very sorry to hear about Martyn. When I read your initial post, I thought his condition might've been more serious than you were indicating and he has been in my thoughts this past week. He was a lovely horse and I know you and your staff will miss him dearly. Please accept my condolences.
Posted by: Jennifer | January 8th, 2010 at 10:07 am
So sorry to hear of your loss. I think you should put that beautiful picture of you and Martyn in a frame and put it on your desk at work so you can be reminded of this wonderful animal who meant a lot to you.
Posted by: Mel | January 8th, 2010 at 10:11 am
My heart goes out to you at the loss of your beautiful friend, Martyn. Our animals are truly "angels with fur". Please feel our good thoughts that we are sending to you.
Posted by: J LINCOLN | January 8th, 2010 at 10:12 am
Please accept my heartfelt condolences, Martha.
Martyn lived a horse's dream life on your farm. And his appreciation of you showed in his face (through your photos).
Rest in peace Martyn.
Posted by: Gloria Brown, Winterport, ME | January 8th, 2010 at 10:12 am
I'm so sorry to hear about Martyn. It isn't fair that animals have such a short life span.
Posted by: Julia | January 8th, 2010 at 10:13 am
Martha, it is so sad to hear of your loss of Martyn. He was a beautiful horse and very fortunate to have you and your staff loving and caring for him. My condolences.
Posted by: ryepye | January 8th, 2010 at 10:17 am
Martha,
My condolences and hugs to you and Betsy. I know you're going to miss your beloved Martyn who was such a beautiful horse. I feel sad but happy that he is no longer in pain. Bye-bye Martyn. Trish
Posted by: Trish | January 8th, 2010 at 10:20 am
A brave and beautiful boy. My deepest sympathy.
xo xo
Posted by: Visual Vamp | January 8th, 2010 at 10:26 am
He had beautiful intelligent eyes. You can see them sparkle even in the last photos. I don't cut you slack on some things you say or do but cannot help but feel for anyone who has to put an animal down. Animals have a way of keeping all thouse who have them grounded. I am certian you will find the perfect way to memoralize him on the farm.
Posted by: Chad | January 8th, 2010 at 10:35 am
A beautiful horse who had a beautiful life thanks to you. Sorry for this loss in your life.
Posted by: Kathy | January 8th, 2010 at 10:36 am
He was a magnificent horse. Gratefully, he is not in pain any longer. So sorry your loss, Martha.
Posted by: Holmdel Honey | January 8th, 2010 at 10:40 am
OMG Martha I can't believe this!! I just read this on The Daily Wag!...I'm beside myself in tears, I am so deeply sorry for your loss of your beautiful Martyn, "he is why I came to your site" and found F&S blog. I truly know the pain as I lost both my beloved Muses Ibn and ChutYanna(29 yrs old) within six months of each other. Having had them for so long was the pain to endure, the years of love and events in their lives I will always cherish, even the 10 months of grueling treatment for ChutYa's Laminitis and my treating her. Ibn's death was the hardest as it was unexpected...I dedicated a painting immortalizing them for a world renowned Canadian Mural project (view here) http://www.squidoo.com/TheHorseGiftMural
Martha I would love to paint Martyn for you...it's up to you....my heart goes out to you.
Just knowing Martyn had such an exceptional home and treatment makes me feel good.
Sincerest Sympathy,
Delia<
Posted by: delia | January 8th, 2010 at 10:41 am
I am so sorry this brought tears to my eyes. to see such beautiful large animals suffer is so heartbreaking. every morning i go to the stable i slowly whisper to myself " i hope every one is okay". i am new to horse ownership and am learning about all the disease and illnesses.
Posted by: nadia | January 8th, 2010 at 10:41 am
I could see in his eyes his love for you Martha, as well as the pain he was suffering. You did the right thing. It is so painful, though, isn't it? I hope the other horses got to say goodbye to Martyn. They are such emotional 4-leggeds. Love, Lin
Posted by: Lin Valentine | January 8th, 2010 at 10:43 am
So sorry about your horse. Pets are part of our family and we morn them, too. I have no doubt that every "critter" at your farm is well tended including the wild ones. Take care and best wishes.
Posted by: Carol | January 8th, 2010 at 10:46 am
The only bad thing about being a pet owner is when you must say good bye to them. It is always so difficult deciding whether to put a pet out of its misery or to hold on to them for as long as we can. I know how you must have suffered when making this decision. My heartfelt condolences to you.
Posted by: Karen | January 8th, 2010 at 10:48 am
Martha. Today's post brought tears to my eyes. I am always very sad when ever an animal has to be put down, especially when its a much loved pet. I am very sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Leanne Plant | January 8th, 2010 at 10:50 am
such a special horse, m sad 4 u M
Posted by: Charmayne | January 8th, 2010 at 10:56 am
So sorry Martha, I hope Martyn is at peace. Heaven has opened their gates for such a formidable and regal Friesian horse.
Posted by: April | January 8th, 2010 at 10:58 am
Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. Some do not understand the loss of a pet, it is just as if not more difficult than the loss of a person.
He is in a better place now running as he should be.
Best wishes
Bea
Posted by: Bea Yeznaian | January 8th, 2010 at 10:58 am
Dear Martha,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. The lost of an animal is never easy. You can rest assured knowing that he lived a good life and was well taken care of to the end. Martyn is no longer in pain and that is most important. Enjoy the pictures you have and all the memories.
Posted by: Diane in San Antonio | January 8th, 2010 at 11:03 am
Martha,Iam so sorry to hear of Martyns passing.He was a majestic creature and a faithful,loving companion.God blessed him to have spent his life under your care.My sympathy,Charles
Posted by: Charles McKenzie | January 8th, 2010 at 11:10 am
You have taught us LIVING
and the end is not dying.
Death comes to all.
Posted by: ann | January 8th, 2010 at 11:13 am
So sorry for your devastating loss.
Posted by: Cathybytheriver | January 8th, 2010 at 11:13 am
I am glad that Martyn is no longer suffering. You did the right thing by giving him the chance to relieve him of pain and have a peaceful passing.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Norbie | January 8th, 2010 at 11:22 am
Martha, I am so sorry for yet another loss of a beloved family member. I don't think there is a fan out there that doesn't know that you love your animals and they are treated humanely. I wish ALL animals could feel the love and warmth that you and your fans share with their pets. As a Vet Tech for 26 years, I held the job of grievance councelor for our clinic. It was a tough job but very rewarding. Loosing a family member is never easy and loosing two so close is even harder. I hope you will allow yourself time for your loss and take all the moments and treasure them. Martyn was a beautiful horse and very lucky to have had you for a Mom. I feel very special as a fan that you feel so comfortable in sharing these very emotional times with your fans. Knowing there are people out there that share your grief is the best medicine. I just know that down the road there is another Martyn out there waiting for you to come fall in love with him.
Posted by: Beth | January 8th, 2010 at 11:40 am
Martha,
I am typing with tesrs rolling down my face. Of course I didn't know your horse but could see from the photos how special he is. One look into those eyes makes you feel like there is a very wise and knowing animal there. My heartfelt sympathy goes to you and those who care for Martyn.
Posted by: Becky from Wisconsin | January 8th, 2010 at 11:44 am
To Martha and those who loved and cared for Martyn, please accept my condolences for your loss. Now Martyn can rest in peace and without pain.
Posted by: Sharon Hines | January 8th, 2010 at 11:51 am
Martha, I am so sorry
Posted by: Pam from Indiana | January 8th, 2010 at 11:53 am
Dear Martha,
You have a lot of reading this morning as there are many good wishes sent to you. Martyn was a beautiful creature and he was in your life for a reason and I am sure a part of that reason was you loved him dearly.
My beautiful lab Sugar had to be put to sleep ten years ago. She had bone problems to the point she could barely walk. We were very sad for some time but now, the wonderful memories and joy of her is in our hearts and everything else just goes away.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Betsy.
Sincerely Susie
Posted by: Susie | January 8th, 2010 at 11:55 am
Dear Martha and staff,
I am very sorry to all for the loss of Martyn. May he be at peace and no pain now in horse heaven.
Posted by: Michelle | January 8th, 2010 at 11:57 am
Dear Martha,
I'm very sad to hear that your beloved Friesian Martyn is no longer with you. These are very special horses (my dream horse) and losing any of them in the friesian community is a cause for great sorrow.
While I'm not blessed with a friesian of my own, I have had many opportunites to smooze with them and have gotten to ride several. My favorite friesian farm is in snowy Vermont-Friesians of Majesty (www.freisiansofmajesty). If you ever get the chance to visit them you will find that the LaBrie family are true ambassadors to the breed and their facility that houses about 40 friesians is very lovely and welcoming. I'm heading there in the next few weeks for a ride and possibly a sleigh ride too.
Cheers,
Terry
Posted by: Terry Boczar | January 8th, 2010 at 11:59 am
i'm so very sorry for your loss, martha.
Posted by: stacey | January 8th, 2010 at 12:07 pm
My condolences to you and all the staff at the farm, on the passing of handsome Martyn. He was family. He was beautiful. He will be terribly missed.
"Those who understand about the common bond between man and animal, I don't need to explain it.” “Those who don't get it, well they just don't get it." - Dr. Dean Richardson, Equine Surgeon of Barbaro
Posted by: Teresa | January 8th, 2010 at 12:07 pm
Martha,
It is not nor should it be simple taking care of animals. Animals are not immune to health issues and we all have to accept the inevitable.
You did all you could, Martyn had a great life.
Posted by: Margie | January 8th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
Dear Martha,
My sympathy goes out to you for the lose of your beautiful Martyn. Our dog, Holly suffered from a similar disease. I will be thinking of you and Betsy.
Sincerely,
Pat
Posted by: Pat Mergel | January 8th, 2010 at 12:17 pm
Such a beautiful horse of amazing stature. I am so very sorry, Martha.
Posted by: Jennifer White | January 8th, 2010 at 12:20 pm
Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a beloved equine companion two years ago to the same disabling disease. Rest assured Martyn knows how much you loved him and he will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge. Blessings upon you for giving him the greatest gift of all...
Posted by: LizB | January 8th, 2010 at 12:24 pm
I am so very sorry about the loss of your horse, Martyn. When I saw his name on the plaque for his stable, I thought he was going to be all right. Such a terrible loss.
Love to you and all who cared for him.
Vivian
Posted by: Vivian Price | January 8th, 2010 at 12:24 pm
So sorry to hear of your loss, may peace be with you Martha. I can see from the icture that the love ran very deep between the two of you and that I KNOW you did all you could do. Please go and give your other horses a kiss from me--
Tanya
Posted by: Tanya Capeci | January 8th, 2010 at 12:37 pm
Dear Martha - I'm teary-eyed and so sad this morning to read about Martyn - such a beautiful, majestic animal. I feel so sorry for you, Martha - I can only imagine how much you loved him. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that you gave him a wonderful place to live and the best possible care & concern. Please accept my sympathies. Love, Brenda
Posted by: Brenda Reichert | January 8th, 2010 at 12:40 pm
Please accept my condolences for the loss of Martyn. What a loving, beautiful horse. What a wonderful experience that you knew him as briefly as he was part of your life. Our animals give us such a wonderful gift of love. So sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Penny | January 8th, 2010 at 12:41 pm
martha i have often felt it would be wonderful to live as one of your pets. what love and care you give and provide for them. i enjoyed watching when you toured the stable and was interested in all of the medical diagnostics and care provided to them.
continued best wishes
diane
Posted by: diane | January 8th, 2010 at 12:49 pm
Martha,
I am saddend at the loss of this beautiful creature and my condolences go out to you and your team. I know he had the very best of care; I always find your love for animals inspirational. Thank you for sharing this touching and personal news with your followers during this very sad time for you and Betsy.
Sincerely,
Angi Jones
Posted by: Angi Jones | January 8th, 2010 at 12:58 pm
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you were/are in the position to provide the best care and the most dignity to this wonderful animal. Martyn is no longer in pain and can now run free with the rest of the herd that has gone before him.
Cheers
Chris
Posted by: Christine Bewsher | January 8th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
Martha it is so sad to have any animal pass but especially one who has been with you for so long. Our dog, Kelly, died in November aged 11 and we all miss her especially Alexander our son whose dog she was. We still have our other dog, Treacle, who is 18 months old so that does help a little but it is one of the things I hate about pets, but they give you so much joy while they are here. Have a good weekend despite this.
Susie
Posted by: Susie Parr | January 8th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
Martha,
So sorry for your loss. I know that you treat all your animals with great respect and love. Any loss is painful.
Randy San Francisco, CA
Posted by: Randy Valin | January 8th, 2010 at 1:28 pm
I was saddened this morning to read about your dear horse, Martyn. He was beautiful and I was touched by the 'Daily Wag' blog...Martyn joins your other pets in heaven.
Posted by: Brian | January 8th, 2010 at 1:33 pm
All good horses go to heaven. God bless Martyn.
Posted by: Janine Woodward | January 8th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Martha, I am saddened by the loss of Martyn. The passing on of a family animal is the loss of a friend and companion, and I send you my deepest sympathy during this time of grieving and remembrance for Martyn. He's galloping in the pastures above us now!
Posted by: Jan | January 8th, 2010 at 1:41 pm
Dear Martha:
So sorry about your loss of Martyn. hope that the rest of the year bodes well for you.
Love your blog, my favourite blogs are the ones.. with your farm and your pets.
Take care,
Noreen
Posted by: Noreen Stinson | January 8th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
dear martha,
i am very sorry for your loss. you can see the love in martyn's eyes, he loved you very much.
God Bless,
lynette
Posted by: lynette | January 8th, 2010 at 2:03 pm
My heart sank when I saw this post this morning. I'd been wondering. I'm saddened for Martyn's distress, the loss to all at your farm, and to friends, family, co-workers. Thank you for the considerate release of sorrowful information.
What a dear face Martyn has! I will hold these sweet images in my memory always.
Posted by: jw | January 8th, 2010 at 2:09 pm
My prayers to you Martha. Loss of pets is like losing a family. Its so hard but their memories are a big comfort. I hear horses are so affected these days due to the recession.If Im wealthy I will adopt one and also adopt a retired military dog.
Posted by: Ariel | January 8th, 2010 at 2:18 pm
How sad. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm happy, though, that he is no longer in pain. He was beautiful.
Posted by: Brandy in VA | January 8th, 2010 at 2:20 pm
Martha. . .I have been so terribly upset all day since reading of your loss. Only last week I shared your blog with my "equestrian" daughter who at that time told me the severity of Martyn's illness, but like myself and so many others were so pleased that he was receiving the ultimate in care, compassion and so much love.
Our hearts and feelings go to you ...at least you should find comfort in knowing that Martyn would never have had a more caring "friend" in you.
best regards,Nina ( anne also)
Posted by: nina zeumer | January 8th, 2010 at 2:34 pm
Dear Dear Martha,
What a shame. I am so sorry you have lost your beautiful Martyn. You are an animal lover and I know each time you go through another loss of one of your loyal friends, it is heartbreaking and a sad reminder of the fragility of life, and the short time we have with these precious creatures.
I once read a book entitled, "All Dogs Go To Heaven," to a child who was profoundly grieving the loss of their sweet puppy. I so wanted to believe every heavenly line in that story to ease that child's pain. I believe it is the child still existing in all of us who have experienced the love of a animal, that earns to know that someday we will ride again, hug and hold again, hear the whinny in our ear, the mew to our touch, our nose buried into that wonderful fur, see the tail wag and smile at the bark, and all of the wonderful animal sounds, as we see our friends once again running to greet us.
Their unconditional love, and forgiveness to our humanly shortcomings are their gift to us. Returning that love and easing their pain, or ending it when all hope fails are our gifts to them.
It takes courage and love to make these diffucult decisions. That's what you gave to your steed Martha and Martyn loved you for it.
To you and all your staff who relished in the love of this horse, my tears are for your pain and sorrow.
Posted by: Becky HK | January 8th, 2010 at 2:35 pm
I was saddened to hear about Martyn, but you are right, he is in a better place. As a horse lover/owner I hate to see these magnificant animals in any sort of pain. Remember all the wonderful times you had with him and that will help you get through these tough times. I know, I've been in your position a couple of times in my years as a equine owner.
Posted by: jamie | January 8th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
I never knew Martyn, but tears came to my eyes. Love to Martyn as he speeds home to his maker.
Posted by: Louise | January 8th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Several years ago I had to make the difficult decision to put down 2 of my horses. It was a very sad day but knowing when to let them go is part of being a responsible pet owner.It still isn't an easy thing to do. My sincere sympathies are with you and to all of those who cared for Martyn.
Posted by: Martha | January 8th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
I am so sorry that you had to put down that beautiful boy Martyn last week. There was something about that blog post about him that said "hmmmm." It was like a beautiful tribute being given before a sad but necessary decision was made.
You could tell he loved you very much and you did everything you possibly could to provide him with a wonderful life. Now you've given him the best gift he could receive - no more pain and suffering. His courageous and wonderful spirit will always be with you.
Posted by: Sonya W. | January 8th, 2010 at 2:53 pm
This is such a difficult and painful decision to make. We all hope that when that time comes we have the good grace and strength to make the right decision for our animals even though it leaves us with a terrible feeling of loss. May you find comfort in the fact that he was loved very much by you all and that he is no longer suffering.
Sincerely
Yolanda
Posted by: Yolanda | January 8th, 2010 at 2:56 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful horse and I know you'll have wonderful memories of him.
Posted by: Bonnie Diener | January 8th, 2010 at 2:59 pm
Oh Martha,
So heartbreaking. I had all this hope with the blog that someone would come forward with a miracle cure. I am so shocked he is gone.
It is one of the most difficult things to put a loved one to sleep. I am sure you did the right thing.
I had to put my Old English Sheepdog to sleep. He lived a good long age to 13 and a half but he could barely walk in the end with a neurological disease.
I had to ask God for help because on the way to the park and then the Vet, I broke down sobbing. Moments after I asked for help a ray of sun hit the car and I felt great peace.
At his last walk in his favourite park a man came with an acorn in his hand. He quietly offered me a story and gave me re-assurance that I would see the dog again. As I walked back to the car and turned to get another look at the man. He was mysteriously gone.
I had great peace as Sherwood was put to sleep in his favourite car, an old yellow 77 Mercedes. He fell asleep with his head in my lap. I knew his spirit was gone when another ray of sunlight hit the car.
I had lunch with a girlfriend who could not stop crying. I did not weep until I was back at home. Later that week he came to me in a dream. He was in his prime and in good mischevious spirits. He stole a sock in the dream. When I woke up I couldn't find it to put in the laundry.
You will see your beloved horse Martyn again, along with all your animal friends and loved ones.
Cheers,
Rachel Scott
Posted by: Sea Petal Manor | January 8th, 2010 at 3:13 pm
I had a feeling Martyn's story had more to it, and was not going to have a happy ending, except in that now he is no longer suffering. But for those left behind, I am truly sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Elizabeth Gage | January 8th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
Horses seem so strong and yet so delicate. I know you and your staff took the very best care of him. Your stable and grounds are so beautiful; a horse couldn't want for anything there. I am so sorry for your loss of Martyn, and hope the other horses stay healthy and strong.
Posted by: Lisa W. | January 8th, 2010 at 3:29 pm
Martha,
So sad you had to loose your beloved Martyn. But we all know he had a wonderful life with you and you took the utmost good care of him. I appreciate all the wonderful pictures you send of all your animals.
Joan Vogt,
Hilton New York
Posted by: joan vogt | January 8th, 2010 at 4:05 pm
Martha I am so sorry for your loss, I have been in this situation with two of my beloved horses so know how heartbreaking it can be to say goodbye to a special friend.
I actually came to your site today to ask you a question about whether you would be in a position to help us with our fight for the preservation of our Wild Mustangs that are being rounded up in Nevada as we speak under terrible conditions, it is a long story, and I know that this is not the time and place, but they can't wait, time is of the essence for them and if you would like more information on this subject I can provide you with official knowledgeable links to celebrities who have taken up this cause and qualified ecologists and many other fields of expertise.
Thank you for listening and again my heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Lori Schmidt
Indiana
Posted by: Lori Schmidt | January 8th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
I'm sure Martyn was grateful for the care he's always had and the rest you've now given him.
Posted by: Jocelyn | January 8th, 2010 at 4:30 pm
Dear Martha,
So sorry for your lost, I know your love for animals is great. It's so hard to say good bye even though he's in a better place.
Sincerely,
Bev
Posted by: Beverly Efland | January 8th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Dear Ms. Stewart,
Maybe there are other things, but horses are what you and I have in common. The loss of one is never easy, but the time with them is so cherished. I can see by your pictures, your already thinking this.
My sincerest apology to you.
Eric
Posted by: Eric | January 8th, 2010 at 4:41 pm
I had only read about Martyn last evening and thought how beautiful is this creature of God...
He must have given you so much joy.I personally do not own horses, however where I live we are surrounded by horses farms. They are so noble, elegant creatures, that just to look at them gives one joy. Condoleances on your loss...
Dorothy
Posted by: dorothy | January 8th, 2010 at 4:56 pm
I was afraid that I would read this on your new posts.
So sorry about your loss.
He is just gorgeous and I'm sure if he could.. he would thank you for the best possible care.
Makes me so sad.
Posted by: Debra | January 8th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
Dear Martha, So very sorry about Martyn, he was a beautiful horse and I enjoyed the pictures and stories of him. I grew up on a farm and know the joys and sorrows of country living. I often think all people should have that joy and teaching of kindness, of taking care of animals and then maybe man would have more thoughtfulness of each other. Our good memories heal the heart.
Posted by: Marabelle Hoke | January 8th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
So sorry to hear about your loss. You gave him a wonderful life and I'm sure he appreciated it.
Posted by: Alex Edward | January 8th, 2010 at 5:11 pm
Dear Martha,
I'm very sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse Martyn. I'm an animal lover as well and lost my dog Cain and Justice in 2008 and my other dog Malikah in January 2009. My sincerest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. I dream of owning my own farm and horses one day. May you meet again at the Rainbow Bridge. Here is a little poem to cheer you up!!
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
Sincerely,
Tina Knezevic
Posted by: Tina Knezevic | January 8th, 2010 at 5:19 pm
In Memory Of Martyn
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.
There's none that stand so tall as those we love.
Horse lovers share a precious bond, like hand in glove.
Something special happens when one with a horse.
They share our deepest secrets and never tell, of course.
Equines have unique sounds that haunt our ear,
A quiet nicker, the hay munch, a snort that brings cheer.
The rattle of the bit as they finish getting dressed,
Jump up! Grunt, pretending they don't lie down to rest.
That warm breath on a cold day that tickles your neck,
Then the soft lips that nibble, a no no, but what the heck!
They are so patient as we humans try to use them.
A crime against Nature for those who would abuse them:
Slowly they find their way right into our mushy heart,
That makes it very tough when it's time to part.
Their beauty and courage have been written,down thru the ages.
The human lives that have been enriched would fill pages.
Martyn said his goodbyes to the mists of Bedford,
To his adoring Lady, he whispered the word -
"I will wait patiently for you beyond the pale,
Look for my shadow, when next on the trail."
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.
Posted by: celia stock | January 8th, 2010 at 5:23 pm
So sorry for your loss Martha - he was an exquisite example of his breed. I know your loss will be felt for a very long time. Hope you find comfort in your other lovely companions. Melody
Posted by: Melody Bryan | January 8th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
So sorry to hear about losing Martyn.Karlene from Utah
Posted by: Karlene | January 8th, 2010 at 5:31 pm
I am very sorry to hear about Martyn's passing. I lost my beloved horse Sunny, in 2005. I still miss her. Our animals leave a mark on our lives. In Sunny's case, "No stone stands over where she lies. It is in my heart that her life is engraved."
Please accept my sympathy, Martha.
Posted by: Pat Scharf | January 8th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
I am so sorry for your loss of Martyn. As a horse owner myself I know how hard this loss is and I wanted to say you gave him a life a horse dreams of. He was gorgeous and I know you and the rest of his herd will miss him greatly. Be glad for his peaceful passing over the Rainbow Bridge.
Posted by: Christine Williams | January 8th, 2010 at 5:49 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss Martha. He was beautiful and I'm sure well loved. Your loss will be felt for awhile, but his memory will live on.
Beth
Posted by: Beth P | January 8th, 2010 at 5:49 pm
I am a animal lover also, so sorry for your loss.
Karen Faison from Waverly Va.
Posted by: Karen Faison | January 8th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
Dear Martha,
Anyone that even reads your blog half of the time knows how much you love and how well you take care of your animals. I am so sorry for your loss. My husband and I have farmed over 40 yrs.and we have had a lot of domestic animals and I could give you a list of "special" animals that have died and were missed very much. In all reality, I feel we are very priveliged to have been able to have and care for these "special" animals. It's a gift!
Esther
Posted by: Esther | January 8th, 2010 at 6:23 pm
I'm so sorry - the other horses will miss him dearly. Sad times for everyone.
Posted by: tam | January 8th, 2010 at 6:40 pm
So sorry for your loss Martha,I know how much you love your animals and it must have been devastating other than the fact it gives peace to know he is not suffering. My friend just lost her horse and the barn girls got together and had a bracelet made for her of a weave of the horse's mane hair. She broke down and cried when she saw it, but it really meant a lot to her and she will always have a rememberance of her beloved friend.
With Sympathy,
Diane R.
Hebron, NH
Posted by: diane roumeliotis | January 8th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
When a beautiful creature is lost, the pain is never forgotten.
Posted by: elizabeth schiano | January 8th, 2010 at 6:55 pm
When a beautiful creature is lost, the pain of that loss is never forgotten.
Posted by: elizabeth schiano | January 8th, 2010 at 6:56 pm
I too have suffered the loss of a beloved pet this week. My poodle Neely died in my arms Wednesday morning following surgery to remove a cancerous salivary gland tumor.
Martyn was a beautiful creature. He obviously brought you much joy and was impeccably cared for and loved.
Posted by: Sherry G | January 8th, 2010 at 7:06 pm
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JANUARY GOODBYES ----
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May I commiserate.
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JANUARY 7TH, YEAR AFTER YEAR........
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Yesterday I got a call to meet a frightened pet owner at the emergency center at Tufts University School of Veterinary Medicine.
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Hopping into my car, I steered along the dark highway and tipsy back roads. Hundreds of memories blew past my windshield giving me chance to flip through the years.
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So many animals,....needles extracting their lives. My own dog Professor, bone cancer foiling her back quarters into crinkled ash........THEN A SQUEAL. ER doors opening as I pulled into the parking lot. My pet owner and terrier shook through the glass and whisked me into an exam room.
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After an hour of crying, pacing and speculating, we were given the x-ray report. Alex's diagnosis had been gas.
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Alex and her owner drove away, drove away home.
.
Me? I had just been given a second Christmas.
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Not always can we exhale with a chuckle when visiting the vet. Twelve years ago to the day such a doctor said to me "We've got some shocking news." Quite oddly it had occurred at that very hospital within that exact examination room, looking into the identical x-ray monitor.
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A Weimaraner named Professor had just been diagnosed with bone cancer. She, my friend of all friends, would become Founder of her own animal cancer charity. She would also die along the way of a most insidious and hideous disease.
.
On this night she saw fit to return me to our old footprints on the floor of that room so many January 7ths ago.
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We stayed to smooth our eyes over those prints for a bit.
.
Then she walked me out of that room, as she had done all of those years ago, and took me to my car. The icy wind knew each of those footprints we had made together from that day to this. Up they all blew, all around me, as if she had orchestrated applause for me simply loving her.
.
She said I should go home now. A tiny wet kiss landed on my cheek, just under my eye, and my car door opened, it seemed without even the touch of my hand.
.
As I got seated, I closed the door and wound down the window. I whispered to her into the frozen air.
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Like an old dog bone, my words were taken by her to a hill at the end of the parking lot. The glare of my headlights turned onto her as I pulled away. She had lain down with the words I had given her under her chin, and one eye on me. Professor Zimbabweeps, thank you for finding Andrea Spencer at 102 Crane Street in a small town in Massachusetts to walk with you for all of you life's your footprints.
.
As with horses.....
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Much sympathy to you Martha.
.
Andrea Spencer
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Posted by: National Cancer Society for Animals | January 8th, 2010 at 7:57 pm
Martha, I feel just awful about the lost of your horse Martyn and the comment I made in joking. Thanks for sharing this post.
Posted by: K L Brown | January 8th, 2010 at 8:03 pm
I am deeply sorry.
Posted by: K L Brown | January 8th, 2010 at 8:05 pm
Oh Martha (may I call you that?)...I am so sorry. What a hard decision. We had to make it for our cat, Spooky this summer....and I just pray that he is at rest. I know you love your animals so much. xoxoxoxoxo
Posted by: Jill | January 8th, 2010 at 8:21 pm
Reading all of the wonderful stories about your pets and viewing all of the pictures you share is one of my favorite things about your website. But I was so saddened by the news that you had to put down your beautiful Martyn. I remember a couple of years ago in your December Living magazine that you had a wonderful Christmas dinner for family and friends in your stables. Everything was set up so nicely in front of the stalls where your horses stay. How curious and frisky they were. I loved that article. I will remember Martyn in that article very fondly. He would stick his head over the gate and the guests just loved it. I am a subscriber your Living magazine, I love it very much.
My thoughts, love and prayers to you in your loss. His pain is gone but you have his memories. That you will always cherish.
Terry Lewis
Posted by: Terry Lewis | January 8th, 2010 at 8:42 pm
Dear Martha,
I was so sorry to read about the death of your horse, Martyn. He was truly a special creature and a gift from God. It is so evident that you are a true animal lover as it shows through the care you have given many animals through the years. I always enjoy your show when you have your pets on with you. I'm sure everyone on your farm is saddened by the loss of Martyn. It is truly heart breaking to lose a pet because they are not only our pets but our companions...protectors.... and in a sense our children. God Bless you, Martha, for all you do in all aspects of life.
Posted by: Sally G. | January 8th, 2010 at 8:43 pm
I'm so very sorry! We love our animals dearly.
Posted by: Carolyn Bohot | January 8th, 2010 at 8:53 pm
My deepest sympathy for your loss of such a wonderful horse.
Thank you for sharing your many interesting stories about him through your blog.
Posted by: Sherry | January 8th, 2010 at 8:54 pm
(CORRECTED COPY--------------)
.
.
JANUARY GOODBYES ----
.
May I commiserate.
.
JANUARY 7TH, YEAR AFTER YEAR........
.
Yesterday I got a call to meet a frightened pet owner at the emergency center at Tufts University School of Veterinary Medicine.
.
Hopping into my car, I steered along the dark highway and tipsy back roads. Hundreds of memories blew past my windshield giving me chance to flip through the years.
.
So many animals,....needles extracting their lives. My own dog Professor, bone cancer foiling her back quarters into crinkled ash........THEN A SQUEAL. ER doors opening as I pulled into the parking lot. My pet owner and terrier shook through the glass and whisked me into an exam room.
.
After an hour of crying, pacing and speculating, we were given the x-ray report. Alex's diagnosis had been gas.
.
Alex and her owner drove away, drove away home.
.
Me? I had just been given a second Christmas.
.
Not always can we exhale with a chuckle when visiting the vet. Twelve years ago to this day such a doctor said to me "We've got some shocking news." Quite oddly it had occurred at that very hospital within that exact examination room, looking into the identical x-ray monitor.
.
A Weimaraner named Professor had just been diagnosed with bone cancer. She, my friend of all friends, would become Founder of her own animal cancer charity. She would also die along the way of a most insidious, hideous disease.
.
On this night she saw fit to return me to our old footprints on the floor of that room so many January 7ths ago.
.
We stayed to smooth our eyes over those prints for a bit.
.
Then she walked me out of that room, as she had done all of those years ago, and took me to my car. The icy wind knew each of those footprints we had made together from that day to this. Up they all blew, all around me, as if she had orchestrated applause for me simply loving her.
.
She said I should go home now. A tiny wet kiss landed on my cheek, just under my eye, and my car door opened, it seemed without even the touch of my hand.
.
As I got seated, I closed the door and wound down the window. I whispered to her into the frozen air.
.
Like an old dog bone, my words were taken by her to a hill at the end of the parking lot. The glare of my headlights turned onto her as I pulled away. She had lain down with the words I had given her under her chin, and one eye on me. Professor Zimbabweeps, thank you for finding Andrea Spencer at 102 Crane Street in a small town in Massachusetts to walk with you for all of your life's footprints.
.
As with horses.....
.
Much sympathy to you Martha.
.
Andrea Spencer
.
Posted by: National Cancer Society for Animals | January 8th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
As stewards to our animals we have the awesome responsibility, and gift, of allowing them to die with dignity and grace.
RIP Martyn. Sorry for your loss
Posted by: Ang | January 8th, 2010 at 9:12 pm
I'm sorry for your loss I know the pain of losing a pet to illness. The best we can do for them and for ourselves is realize the time we have with them was meant to be. Lessons learned from animals, the tranquility of just being and the simplicity of needing nothing but the basics is what they teach us. We can't teach them anything except to bear with us while we learn these things...God Bless ! I hope you find some peace to ease your pain...
Posted by: Liv Picciotti | January 8th, 2010 at 9:16 pm
So sorry to hear about Martyn. He was such a beautiful fellow... very handsome with such an expressive face.
My beloved Aimee died last February. She was a big black Percheron with so much style and grace for such a heavy horse. I have mourned her more than any of my horses and was not surprised when her team-mate Alise (a Queenly grey Percheron) passed just before Christmas. They were both in their 30s, much loved, and sadly missed.
Posted by: Shea | January 8th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
Martha, I'm soooo sorry. What a beautiful tribute and he loves you for not letting him live in pain! I'm sure you were a phenomenal 'Mom'...
Sincerest sympathies. And thank you for sharing your 'farm-ly' with us!
Posted by: Morgan | January 8th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
This is so very sad but now he is out of pain and in animal heaven with all the other animals.My thoughts are with you and the stable staff who have lost a dear friend ,I'm sure evryone is mourning his passing.I know he had a good life with loving people like you and your staff.
Take care.
Leona
Posted by: Leona by the ocean in Nova Scotia | January 8th, 2010 at 9:46 pm
Martha: I wish to add my sincerest condolences to the long list here in this page.
Because of my involvement with DSLD/ESPA research and education, I have often sought to help owners of D/E horses cope with the decision of when to euthanize, and then with the grief of their loss. It NEVER gets easier, and my heart always hurts from these tragic losses. I am so sorry you had to lose him.
Sometimes it is so hard for a non-horse person to have any idea how deep the bond can be in an interspecies relationship; and probably more so with a horse than a cat or a dog. Horses seem so different from us. Many people just don't understand...
The horse has the most incredibly generous spirit. They *let* us use them, ride them, train and perform with them. If we are very, very lucky they let us be their friends.
Some humans cannot understand how truly extraordinary this is. A 'predator-human' who seeks to understand, and to bond with, a 'prey-horse' seems so strange to some folks that they mock us as "horse-crazy". We laugh with them ...not because we don't understand, but because we do.
We know that in the finest human-equine relationships, the horse allows us to shed our predator-selves and become something deeper and more spiritual. He, in turn, reaches inside himself to rise above his prey-fears to fully enter into a relationship seemingly contrary to his wild nature. In concert, the bonded horse and human can become something different and better than either was alone: a state of being that is unique, beautiful, spiritually enhancing.
Thank you for sharing your love of Martyn with us. Thank you for sharing your difficult decision.
As in my comment on your 'visit to the stables' blog, I do believe that Martyn must have suffered from DSLD/ESPA. I can only hope, as one who knows how very desperately the equine world needs to understand and conquer this disease, that you might seek to educate others about this disease; and that you might add your support to the research program at the University of Georgia Vet Med School headed by Associate Professor Dr. Jaroslava Halper. Please feel free to contact me for any information.
Blessings to you and yours in this New Year.
Terry B/Salem, OR
(C) 2010
Posted by: Terry Barrall | January 8th, 2010 at 9:46 pm
Dear Martha, Betsy, and all those who cared for Martyn, I am thinking of you all tonight...I am so sorry.
Posted by: Sandy Lair | January 8th, 2010 at 10:07 pm
As a fellow Friesian owner, I extend my sincere condolences on the loss of your Martyn. Friesians are truly a unique breed and I think it is safe to say that we do not own them, they are the ones that own us.
Martyn was fortunate to live on your farm and I know that you gave him the best life possible.
Posted by: Jessie | January 8th, 2010 at 10:11 pm
So very sorry, Martha for your loss of this beautiful horse. Animals are a gift from God for our enjoyment, love and care. They become a member of our family and we embrace them as such. Saying goodby is so very hard. Be comforted, dear Martha and be thankful for the time you had with him.
Posted by: Judy Lawhon | January 8th, 2010 at 10:40 pm
To Martha, Betsy and all the others who loved & took care of Martyn: I am very sorry. It is very sad to have to say goodbye to any of our pets. Even though your heart hurts, it is better to see him put down than for him to suffer in pain. I am sure he will always hold a special place in your heart. God bless.
Posted by: Beth Thomas | January 8th, 2010 at 11:01 pm
Dear Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Many years ago I bought a t-shirt at Equine Affaire with the following words, and sadly shared it soon thereafter at a memorial service held for a much loved horse at our barn.
Somewhere in time's own space there must be some sweet pastured place where creeks sing on and tall trees grow, some paradise where horses go. For by the love that guides my pen, I know great horses live again. -author unknown-
My condolences to you Martha, and to all who had the pleasure of being in the company of your majestic friend Martyn.
Posted by: Nora | January 8th, 2010 at 11:06 pm
My Dearest Martha and Everyone who was connected to Beautiful Martyn, My heart goes out to all of you and I too will miss Beautiful Martyn. I know how hard it is to deal with the fact that you have to put down any animal that you love with all your heart and soul. My condolences to all of you. Marths, I am so proud of you for taking the time to inform all of us who love you, your crew and all of your animals. You are not only special, but very precious to me. I am sending big hugs to all. Thank you Martha for sharing these tough moments with us. All my love, Jan
Posted by: Jan Erickson | January 8th, 2010 at 11:20 pm
i like you martha. i remember when i first discovered you after i was married and on disability when you had a half hour show on over 17 years ago. you were crazy but good crazy. i've been following you since so i can honestly say that i am so sorry about your loss. someone told me, after my beloved dog had to be put down many years ago, that each death brings on the memory of all of your other loses. it doesn't get easier. i can honestly say that in my next life, it would be neat to come back as one of your pets. he was stunning.
Posted by: chris | January 8th, 2010 at 11:22 pm
So very, very sorry Martha. He was beautiful indeed and had such gentle eyes. All of the many animal lovers who read your blog are really feeling for you. Thank you for sharing his story with us.
Posted by: Melinda Blake | January 8th, 2010 at 11:27 pm
I'm so sorry. I know how difficult it is to lose a horse this way.
Posted by: RachaelRossman | January 8th, 2010 at 11:56 pm
It's amazing...but they never leave us...these precious pets that are sent to bless our lives....the comfort of their love remains....a slight breeze....a warm ray of sunshine...and the memory of their loving hearts. I am so sorry for your loss....
Posted by: Rita | January 8th, 2010 at 11:59 pm
Dear Martha,
My sincere sympathy in the loss of dear Martyn. It is a most difficult decision any animal lover must make...but make it we all do to maintain the dignity and quality of life. I am so sorry.
Posted by: Paulette | January 8th, 2010 at 11:59 pm
Dear Martha.
I'm sending out a prayer to you for your loss. In life It's so hard to say goodbye to an animal you loved. I send that prayer your way, Because Martha I say this with a deep caring keystroke you're loved by millions and you can count on me as 1 of those millions! When there's doubt look to this Blog for a caring post.
My deepest sympathy Kristin.
Posted by: kristin Svens | January 9th, 2010 at 12:15 am
When I read the blog about Martyn before, I thought "Oh,no." I sensed that he wouldn't recover from his ailment. I knew that he was receiving the best care possible with you but that even that wouldn't be enough to make him sound again. Very sad.
Our family just lost our dog who had been with us for fourteen years and was the best dog on the planet. Letting him go was wrenching for all of us. I wrote about what a wonderful dog he was on my blog.
Seeing the end of such a beautiful horse must have been painful. Thank you for sharing him.
Posted by: Clayvessel | January 9th, 2010 at 1:05 am
Thank you so much for sharing Martyn and all your horses with us in this blog. I felt like I knew Martyn, after following him and his lameness problems this year.
Everyone in your vast network of readers and viewers has experienced something very special in your willingness to share your affection and concern for Martyn.
I hope we will get to know more of your horses but I'm sure that no one who reads your blog will forget magnificent Martyn and the thoughtful care you gave him. I know I will never forget that photo of his open stall door.
Posted by: Fran Jurga, Hoofcare & Lameness Journal | January 9th, 2010 at 1:08 am
Such a beautiful elegant animal. Thank you for the loving care you give to the loyal companions who surround you.
May God Bless You.
Posted by: April Leilich | January 9th, 2010 at 1:18 am
Martha, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure he led a wonderful life at your farm and will provide beautiful memories.
Posted by: Jon Beattie | January 9th, 2010 at 1:39 am
Martha,
I'm so sorry to hear about Martyn. What a devastating disease, especially for a horse of his size. At least you can take comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering. We lost our dog of 12 years to cancer earlier this year, and I still miss her. I really enjoyed the photo shoot of your stables, your Friesians are gorgeous horses and obviously have a good home. My sympathies.
The horse is God's gift to mankind. ~ Arabian Proverb
Posted by: kms | January 9th, 2010 at 1:51 am
I am so sorry for your loss of Martyn. I know what you are going thru as I have lost many horses to this horrible disease DSLD/ESPA as have so many others. We share in your loss. (((HUGS))) from all of us one DSLD-equine list. Thru research we will get the answers. Maybe Martyn can help by reaching out to others to make the equine world more aware of the needs for research to help our beloved equine companions who suffer from this. Peace and many happy memories of your special boy. Bunny
Posted by: Bunny Reveglia | January 9th, 2010 at 2:24 am
Dear Martha,Our deepest sympathy for your loss of Martyn.
We have horses and ponies here on our farm in upstate NY and they all become part of the family.
May you find comfort and peace in knowing you took good care of him.
Posted by: Aleta Frost | January 9th, 2010 at 2:35 am
Dear Martha. i just read on your tweet about Martyn.My heart goes out to you. I've lot three horses over the years ,many dogs and cats,and just recently our beloved cat at 17 1/2 years old. My last horse was almost 31! i had to make a decision on one of them to have the vet come...its a heart wrenching decision...but then they are safe and not in any pain...must sooth the heaviness in our hearts. He was a beautiful horse and Im sure he lived a very happy life with you on your farm.my thoughts and prayers go out to you....Lynne
Posted by: lynne vokatis | January 9th, 2010 at 2:53 am
How sad, I am sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful horse.
God bless
Posted by: Rowaida Flayhan | January 9th, 2010 at 4:33 am
Dear Martha,
The loss of an animal is terribel, but when we know that the animal is no longer in pain it makes it easier.
We hope u get through this difficult period and our thoughts are with u.
Filip and Hedwig
Belgium
Posted by: Filip and Hedwig | January 9th, 2010 at 5:16 am
I'm so sorry for your loss. He was such a beautiful horse and I know much loved. From viewing the pictures of your farm and stables it looks like it would be heaven on earth for horses. Peace to you and your staff.
Posted by: Frances Jackson | January 9th, 2010 at 8:06 am
Martha, I am very sorry for your loss. I have recently went a animal loss my self an it is most heart breaking. I was raised around horses my whole life. They a special kind of animal. Continue the great care an love to all of your other family animal members.
Posted by: Virginia Hamblin | January 9th, 2010 at 8:25 am
Donations to DSLD (degenerative suspensory ligament desmitis) research-
Checks made out to Texas A&M,
*must make notation on check:
"Dr.Cothran dsld research in Genetics and Health of Horse"
send to-
Dr. Cothran- DSLD research
The Department of Integrative Biosciences
College of Veterinary Medicine
Texas A&M Univ.
College Station, TX 77843-4458
http://giving.tamu.edu/how-to-give/On-line%20Gifts/default.aspx
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Donations to U of GA research make check out to:
University of Georgia,
*notation on check
"Halper dsld/espa research fund #A912210".
Send to:
University of Georgia,
Dr. Halper,
142 Vet Med 1,
Athens, GA 30602-7388
http://www.alumni.uga.edu/gafund/Gift.html
Posted by: susan golshani | January 9th, 2010 at 8:45 am
I am so sorry. As a horse and Newfoundland owner I know the difficulty of making this agonizing decision and the stress involved leading up to it. Thank you for sharing Martyn with us.
Posted by: Carol in NC | January 9th, 2010 at 8:50 am
Dear Martha,
Please accept my condolences. While I know you have other horses, they are still one of your babies. There is so much learned between a horse and its mom, so much time spent together discovering each other's idiosyncrasies. Any given day you are with them can be an adventure. (I own a 15 year old quarter horse that I've had for about 3 years. He is not a young boy any more and I already think about his mortality.)
Hug your other babies tightly (if they let you -some horses are funny)
Sincerely,Paige
Posted by: Paige Loberger | January 9th, 2010 at 9:53 am
Dear Martha:
Thank you for sharing this experience with the horse community - I think it is so valuable to see the care you have enlisted for Martyn.
Also, thank you for your example in choosing euthansia as a humane act of love for Martyn.
Too many horse owners pass the buck when it comes to making this painful decision.
I hope your example to the horse communitiy will influence some of those people who choose the simple way out (auctions, giveaway - which ultimately put the horse in a very compromising situation - often leading to very painful death for their meat) and comfort others who have dealt with similar circumstances.
Posted by: Sharon Matthews | January 9th, 2010 at 10:09 am
Dear Ms. Stewart
Please except our humble condolences-along with having 2Lippizaners and 3 QuarterHorses, we are part of ahorse theatre company that puts on 4 equestrian shows/year-open to the public. I truely do know the horrific pain you are now undergoing. I pray in time, your heart will heal and eventually joy will rise in the beautiful memories the two of you shared. Today is our last matinee for the winter until spring and we will dedicate today's show to your magnificentMartyn. Forever may he gallop inpeace and joy to the horseheaven in the sky
Posted by: zulah | January 9th, 2010 at 10:25 am
Martha,
So sad to read your blog this morning. I used to take dressage lessons and my favorite horse was a Friesian named Lucky. He was an older guy and he would only canter in one direction, but I loved his sweet face and gentle disposition. Rest in Peace, Martyn...
Posted by: Lori Herlihy | January 9th, 2010 at 10:47 am
It is a responsibility of all caretakers to see their beloved animals through at the end of their life in a dignified way. Your grace in this difficult time is an example and an inspiration.
I can tell by the wonderful pictures you posted that he was very sweet, but had a strong personality.
I hope you saved some tail hair to make into a bracelet.
Posted by: Linda Sain | January 9th, 2010 at 10:52 am
Hi Martha:
I am so sorry. I had to put down my horse a few years ago. It was very sad but he was also in a lot of pain with a leg problem that could not be fixed. My uncle is a large animal vet and did very thing to help him. To this day I still miss the Skip.
Posted by: Julie | January 9th, 2010 at 11:21 am
Dear Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. I too had to put down my beloved mare, that I had owned for 24 years, because of DLSD/ESPA. As you know, it is a horrible disease with no cure. It is so difficult to watch these beautiful horses decline with this disease. My mare was a TB as it is seen in many different breeds.
I do hope you become an advocate for the horses who are afflicted with DSLD/ESPA. More horse owners and vets need to know more about it. Many don't, so education is very important.
I know that your fond memories of Martyn will soon fill the big hole you have in your heart.
Sincerely,
Karen
Posted by: Karen Lawver | January 9th, 2010 at 11:44 am
Always so sad to hear such news. Lovely sweet horse. As a horse-owner myself, I know how difficult that decision must have been. Heartfelt condolences.
Posted by: Carolynne in Cali | January 9th, 2010 at 11:58 am
Martha, Betsy and Staff,
You have my most sincere condolences on your loss of Martyn. He was a most majestic, beautiful horse that was well loved, as all your animals in your household.
Losing a pet is never easy and I pray that your saddened heart will be lifted by happy memories of Martyn.
I am losing my best friend too Martha, who is named after you-Martha. Martha is my 13 year old Yorkie who has renal disease right now. I have her comfortable and doing the right things but I know my decision time is approaching soon.
It's never easy.
I am glad that your baby is not suffering anymore. May you both be rejoined in heaven at the "Rainbow Bridge". I know Martyn is waiting along with your other fur-babies to be reunited again.
Peace be with you at this time,
Paula M. (and Martha Yorkie too)
Posted by: Paula M. | January 9th, 2010 at 12:10 pm
Martha,
My sympathies. You gave Martyn the ultimate gift : freedom from pain.
He was loved and cared for till the final moment.
Rest in Peace, dear Martyn.
Susan
Posted by: Susan | January 9th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
I'm sorry about the passing of Martyn. It is always best when an animal no longer has to suffer. God bless.
Son
Posted by: Sonja | January 9th, 2010 at 3:21 pm
Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about your horse. One becomes very attached to our animals.You always do the most dignified thing Martha, may he rest in peace.
Posted by: Carol Burkhart | January 9th, 2010 at 3:38 pm
My thoughts are with you in the loss of your magnificent Martyn. God Bless.
Posted by: Jennifer | January 9th, 2010 at 3:55 pm
Martha,
As an animal lover I sympathize w/ you, I understand how a pet really becames a family member. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: amanda | January 9th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Dear Martha,
It took me a quite a while before I stopped crying long enough to write this to you. It broke my heart to hear the terrible news about your beloved friend, Martyn. He was a most noble steed; so well-loved and cared for by you and Betsy. Anyone who has loved and lost a beloved "furry child" has a great deal of compassion for you at this time. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Roberta Palumbo
Posted by: Roberta Palumbo | January 9th, 2010 at 5:18 pm
Martha, I'm so sorry to hear about having to put Martyn down. He is at peace now, and I know you did everything you could. I'm sure he had a very good life and a lot of love from you.
Posted by: Paula Jo | January 9th, 2010 at 5:19 pm
I gasped right out loud, Martha, when I read yesterday's blog's title this evening! I'm partially astonished, but something told me in the back of my head last week that some decisions might have to made in the near future regarding beautiful boy Martyn. A heartfelt 'awww'!
~
We ALL have our own personal stories to tell about our beloved pets - I can personally attest that it is very painful to witness one's deardear pet having distress and/or discomfort, or downright pain. I know in my heart that Martyn's future was decided justly with as much ache in all the hearts that knew him, cared for him, loved him...
~
My heart is very heavy for your loss, Martha - for the loss of this majestic and beautifulbeautiful creature. I will remember him always.
~
Grace and peace,
=^..^=
Posted by: Cindy Bricker | January 9th, 2010 at 7:09 pm
Martha, I'm so sad to hear about your lovely Martyn. As hard as it was, you did the right thing.
Not long ago, we also made that same agonizing decision with my daughter's quarterhorse Mos Wonderful who foundered due to Cushings Disease. Like you, we did everything we could, including sleeping alongside his stall, but he was in too much pain and we had to let him go. He was a gentle boy with a fun personality who taught my little girl so much about horses and life. We miss him every day.
Wishing you and Betsy and everyone else who loved Martyn peace during this difficult time.
Posted by: Laurie London | January 9th, 2010 at 7:37 pm
I'm so sorry, Martha. I remember seeing the episode that detailed the care your horses received. I was in awe -- the heated floors, the saddle fittings twice a year, so much more. Your horses are indeed very well taken care and I'm sure there was nothing more that could be done for Martyn. My condolences.
Posted by: Patia | January 9th, 2010 at 8:37 pm
Martha , I am so sorry to read about your beautiful horse. I think any horse owner that has had to make that hard decision will feel for you. Big hugs.
Posted by: Jenni Miller | January 9th, 2010 at 8:52 pm
Dear Martha,
So sorry to hear of Martyn's passing. He was a beautiful and majestic boy, obviously much loved by you, Betsy, and everyone at the farm. My heart aches for you and for anyone else having to make this very tough decision about their beloved companion. God Bless you and all who cared for Martyn and all those who care for our friends, equine, canine, feline or otherwise.
Posted by: Christina T. | January 9th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
So hard to watch a beloved animal suffer and so sad to let one go. My thoughts are with you and all those who helped him from his beautiful life to an easy passing.
Posted by: Jayne | January 9th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
Oh, Martha...I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Coasting anon | January 9th, 2010 at 9:23 pm
I just read your blog. I was very sorry to hear about Martyn. It is always a very difficult decision to make but one that is best for the animal. God bless you and the wonderful life that Martyn had with you. I am hoping that you can find some restitution in this most difficult time. Christine.
Posted by: Christine | January 9th, 2010 at 9:25 pm
Martha,
My condolences to you and Betsy and everyone who cared for Martyn. I was very sad to read about his passing. I had a funny feeling that his illness wasn't going to turn out very well when I read the blog about your visit to the stable to see him. I cried for months when my cats passed away. Its like loosing a dearly loved family member. My sympathies to you during this time of loss.
Linda
Phila., PA
Posted by: Linda | January 9th, 2010 at 10:18 pm
Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about Martyn. I have had to put down a number of my own horses over the years for various health reasons and I know the pain that you feel. Horses have a way of making a lasting impressions and Im sure you will never forget him. I am truly sorry.
Lauren Werts
Posted by: Lauren Werts | January 9th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
I have admired the way in which you conduct your life for many years. Your music has inspired me to become a hero in my own life. Once again your grace will lead the way when I must say good-bye to my animal friends.
Susan
Owner and partner to an imported Oldenburg
Posted by: susan erickson | January 9th, 2010 at 10:58 pm
A STANZA FOR MARTHA AND MARTYN
His hoofs they pranced on earthly soil,
the head held grand and proud,
The tail breezed airily as a sail,
the mane combed neatly down.
He swayed from side to side when rode,
he whinnied when you came into his sight,
And now he's passed through Heaven's Gate,
with no pain to his deep heart's delight.
The leg completely healed now,
feels so good without the binds,
He knew he had the best care,
on that earth he knew so fine.
He races, he rears, and kicks the air,
with others of his kind,
Not once to limp, not once to fall,
and he's never left behind.
On four good legs he will patiently wait,
by that Heaven's Door,
For you to come, and see him jump,
as you never saw before.
He is so happily, and completely free of any chronic pain,
And at that sight, you will know you did right,
when you lovingly see Martyn again.
Posted by: Becky HK | January 9th, 2010 at 11:06 pm
What a gorgeous beast. It is sad that he is gone, but how lucky was he to have had Martha Stewart as a mom. He must have had the greatest life.
Posted by: Annie Brown | January 10th, 2010 at 10:04 am
My condolences to you, your stable manager, barn staff, and other horses. I had to put down a mare with a foal by her side when the foal was four months old, and I know what you are going through. The foal is now 15 years old, and is the love of my life. He is an Oldenberg gelding that I show in dressage.
You will hear Martyn's hoof falls & his nicker. He will come to you in spirt & never leave you.
Posted by: Valerie DiStefano | January 10th, 2010 at 4:25 pm
Dear Martha,
Among the many reasons I have been such a loyal follower is your love of animals. You have given me so much over the last ten years through your publications. I just wish there was something I could say that would ease the pain of losing such a beautiful creature and a well loved friend. God bless you.
Paula Larsen
Posted by: Paula Larsen | January 10th, 2010 at 4:47 pm
Martha, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There is no doubt that Martyn was receiving the best care possible. My condolences. He will forever be remembered.
Posted by: Shelly | January 10th, 2010 at 5:20 pm
YOU HAVE SAID YOUR FAREWELL TO MANY ANIMALS OVER THE YEARS JUST AS MANY OF US HAVE. IT DOES NOT MAKE IT ANY EASIER. MY SINCERE SYMPATHY TO YOU AND THE CARE GIVERS OF MARTYN, YOU WILL SEE HIM ON THE OTHER SIDE I'M SURE. GREAT ANIMALS GIVE US GREAT LIVES!
Posted by: mimi | January 10th, 2010 at 5:28 pm
Martha,
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Martyn. Horses are an amazing gift. I have three horses that live with me at home and they are truly majestic, and loving animals.My deepest sympathy to you at this time.I am sure you can rest easier knowing that Martyn is resting comfortably.
Sincerely,
Jessica
Posted by: Jessica | January 10th, 2010 at 5:42 pm
Martha...You gave Martyn the best gift a good horsewoman can give...you released him from pain and suffering. I know how difficult the decision was for you as I had to put a precious DSLD horse down this year. I was only his caregiver and not his loving owner but it still hurts every day. We built a beautiful garden for him up high on a hill above the barn where he lived out his last months. He is with several other special horse friends who have also gone to be with the horse angels. I know your blog has called attention to this horrible disease that is not well known to many horse people, both amateurs and professionals. With the unique access to the media that you have, I hope that perhaps you will memorialize Martyn with information about his case that may help others identify the disease in their horses and perhaps support all the good research that is going on...
Posted by: mary rice | January 10th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
As an animal lover who has also had the unfortunate event to lose a beloved member of the family, I wish to extend my condolences to you. Martryn looked like a beautiful horse, and I was saddened to hear of his disease.
Posted by: Susan from Indiana | January 10th, 2010 at 6:33 pm
What a beautiful horse he was!So sorry for the lost,may in time the pain be replace with beautiful memories that all of you shared with Martyn.
Posted by: Susan Plasko | January 10th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
Dear Martha:
I did not read your blog last week so was shocked when I read about your horse, Martyn, today. I'm sure your animals get the best care in the world, but sometimes we have to do what is best for them and not for us. I am an "over-the-top" animal lover and have had to go through the death of many pets so I sympathize. I hope all is well with you and that all of your other horses are healthy.
Sincerely,
Martha Skruby
Posted by: Martha A. Skruby | January 10th, 2010 at 7:06 pm
Martha,
From personal experience, I know how difficult the loss of a treasured animal companion can be. As with any loss, the words of condolence and kind thoughts of others are a testiment to the collective shared sympathy and compassion of us all.
Jim
Posted by: Jim Bryant | January 10th, 2010 at 7:08 pm
Martha,
All of us on the Iron Ribbon - Laminitis Awareness page on Facebook send you our sincerest condolences.
Posted by: Iron Ribbon - Laminitis Awareness | January 10th, 2010 at 9:12 pm
Oh dear, what a terrible loss for you, Betsy and his companions in the stable. My condolences to all of you. Always much better to avoid extended pain management and just let them go.
Posted by: Ingrid, Melbourne, Australia | January 10th, 2010 at 9:45 pm
Martha
Am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved horse. If my calculations are right you were dealing with this at or around xmas which makes it all the more heartbreaking. I live just a few miles from Paris where you purchased Martyn. This is big horse country and we ourselves have race horses. I know you and your team would have done everything you could to save him. I hope the remaining horses stay healthy for you.
Posted by: sally doersam | January 10th, 2010 at 9:45 pm
Martha,
You have my sincere condolences. I'm not sure if you were dealing with DSLD/ESPA or suspensory desmitis but either or are very tough to deal with. I think my own horse is dealing with this too. The vets in my area are not up to speed on this so it's difficult to explain my concerns.
Again, my sincere condolences.
Posted by: Karen D | January 10th, 2010 at 11:06 pm
After having to put down a beloved cat the day before Thanksgiving, I can only imagine the heartbreak and emptiness you feel right now. But in the days that followed, the pain became easier to deal with and we began to talk about the fond memories he left us with. Condolences and peace.
Posted by: Linda Watson | January 10th, 2010 at 11:36 pm
Oh Martha...Of course he died peacefully. Martyn was well loved and clearly given the best care. Personally, I'm glad we didn't know the full story when you shared your earlier visit. It enabled us to him just as he was: An animal enjoying his life.
Thank you once again for sharing with us the life of Martyn. Please let us know how the animals are coping with his absence. Such a beautiful creature he was.
Posted by: Marie | January 11th, 2010 at 4:22 am
Dear Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure that Martyn had a wonderful life at your farm. Please extend my condolences to all of his other caregivers as well.
Posted by: Allison Swift | January 11th, 2010 at 10:02 am
My loving sympathy on the death of your horse Martyn. I am sure you miss him a lot, amid your busy schedule. Horses are so special. Big hug to you and everybody that knew him and miss him.
Posted by: Marie-Hélène Bourget | January 11th, 2010 at 10:12 am
I am sorry for your loss--I know from experience how hard that decision must be. On Jan. 4, 2010, I had to put down my 26 yr. old Arabian mare due to degenerative soft tissue disease. It is a decision that can be made more difficult, as the horse was still alert and calling to me whenever she heard my voice. My only consulation, like you, is that now she is out of pain. It is still hard for me to go out to feed my other horse, and see her empty stall.
Posted by: Sharon Petrie | January 11th, 2010 at 2:21 pm
Oh, I'm sorry Martha. I know how much you love your animals, and I am a fellow animal lover myself.
You did what was best for him and he knows it too.
Pain and Suffering are not what anyone wants, especially if medications can not relieve the pain. There is no need to suffer in the animals eyes or the human eyes.
He knows he was well cared for and loved.
Sue in Renton, WA
Posted by: Sue | January 11th, 2010 at 4:26 pm
Dear Martha,
I don't have to tell you there are worse things than death in this world. Martyn was lucky to have people looking after his best interests. So many horses die painful, horrible deaths, struggling to the very end. While it is difficult to make a decision to euthanise a beloved family member, it is often the right choice to make. We should all be so lucky to be able to pass with dignity, grace, and compassion. He is well met, I can assure you, and much better off now. Martyn was a truly magnificent creature. My heart goes out to you and your staff in this sad time.
Posted by: a von argyriadis | January 11th, 2010 at 5:03 pm
Martyn looks like a sweet fellow. Your love and respect for him and all of your animals is admirable.
Posted by: Ms Elso | January 11th, 2010 at 8:17 pm
I'd like to offer my condolences as well. It's been nearly a year since I parted with my sweet cuddly kitty and I still miss him dearly. I believe our furry and four-legged friends are angels who God merely loans us for a short time. Hopefully, we learn from them and we never forget them.
"Ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds of the air,
and they will tell you; or speak to the earth, and it will teach you,
or let the fish of the sea inform you. Which of these does not know
that the hand of the Lord has done this? In his hand is the life
of every creature and the breath of all mankind."
- Job 12:7-10
Posted by: Tracy | January 12th, 2010 at 4:01 am
From one animal lover to another, I am truly sad for you for losing a beautiful friend like Martyn. How lucky he was to have such a loving home. He will live in your heart until you can be reunited with him again.
Posted by: Julie McFarling | January 12th, 2010 at 9:36 am
I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss of Martyn. He was a beautiful horse and obviously very loved. May you hold all your memories close to your heart.
Posted by: Chatelaine | January 12th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about your horse!!! I am also a horse owner also and I know how you feel. He was a very beautiful horse!!
Posted by: Christy, Georgia | January 12th, 2010 at 2:55 pm
Dear Martha,
I am so very sorry about your beautiful boy, Martyn. I know how heartbreaking the loss is - I, too, lost a horse several years ago despite the best of vet care. They are wonderful, amazing animals. I know Martyn will live forever in your dreams and memories. Sincerely, Susan
Posted by: Susan | January 12th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
You both were very lucky to have each other!
It's always so hard to lose a treasured friend. My neighbor and I were just talking about that today as she had to put her cat down.
I send lots of hugs!
Posted by: Alicia | January 13th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Martha,
I am sorry for your loss. I will prayer for your comfort and strentgh to help you through your loss. Words can not express how beautiful Martyn was and so are all of your other Friesians. May God bless you, your family and of course Betsy who always dedicates all of her time and care to all of your lovely animals. Blessings, Valerie
Posted by: valerie | January 14th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Dear Martha Im so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful horse. I also have lost some of my best friends (my horses) but after 52 years of having horses, loving these animals they are your family. Remember all the fond memories and he will live on forever in your heart.
Posted by: Ida | January 14th, 2010 at 11:38 am
So sorry to hear about your beautiful horse. I am a horse owner also and am dreading that day. I have a nice TB that never raced that I bought as a 4yr old. He has been my show jumper do everything horse for 18 yrs now. We still trail ride and he gives me great pleasure and stability of mind, maybe I should have called him valium or prozac, lol. I have been involved with show jumping for most of my life.
I enjoyed seeing the polo person and have some advice for you on keeping white breeches white. I compete and I have 2 sons who compete professionaly at the FEI and international level. If you want to remove brown stains from your saddle or black from boots use a little Murphy's oil soap. You can use on you shirts to remove black on the cuffs from your gloves. Do not use bleach on your breeches, they are made from a synthetic fabric and it will yellow them. If they need whitening soak them in Biz. Then wash with some liquid fabric softner in the rinse. Air dry never put in the dryer. This will keep the leather knee patches lasting longer. The polo players breeches are a cotton and are not the same as yours. I deal with leather all the time, I have a business where I make custom chaps and 1/2 chaps for the show jumper crowd. I met you at a book signing and gave you a recipe for home made treats for your horses.
Again, sorry about your horse, I would be devasted.
Posted by: Cyndi Starr | January 14th, 2010 at 12:50 pm
Dear Martha,
So sorry to hear of your loss of Martyn. He is beautiful!!! I can understand what you are going through right now as we lost a horse this year in a somewhat traumatic (or sudden) way. A huge flock of birds gathered and flew in formation over his body shortly after leaving to the other side... there was beauty in that. Because he was so loved in this life I am sure Martyn carries that over in his spirit and thanks you for your love in his life.
Also, 6 days before Christmas my lead healer horse (EAP) had to be rushed to Mid Atlantic Medical for emergency head trauma. Luckily he came home 2 days before the holiday, safe and sound (and 1/2 bald). Twas a perfect holiday gift. I am warmed to know that you have 4 more at home to give you horse hugs in this time of sorrow.
with love,
Christianna
Executive Director
Spring Reins of Hope, Getting to the Horse of the Matter...
Posted by: Christianna Capra | January 14th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
Oh Martha -- I saw your show today and decided to check out your blog. The first blog I read was about Martyn and now I sit here weeping. It reminded me of my cat that I had to put down in December of 08 and I still miss him every day. He died in my arms and I know he is at peace and (as with your horse) no longer in pain. Most days are happy memories honoring his life, today thinking of your poor horse just reminded my of the loss. You (and your Martyn) are in my thoughts today.
Posted by: catherine | January 14th, 2010 at 7:44 pm
Deepest prayers & sympathy on your loss. All horse lovers feel your pain.
Beth & animals
Posted by: Beth Ann | January 15th, 2010 at 3:55 pm
So sorry to hear about your horse
Posted by: Daphne | January 26th, 2010 at 7:57 am
So very sorry for your loss. Was this identified as DSLD? It seems this breed tends to have dropped pasterns. He was a beautiful boy and I am sure he will be missed!
A poem:
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.
Author unknown
Posted by: Kathy Baker | January 27th, 2010 at 10:02 am
Martha, so very sorry to hear about Martyn's passing. Animals bring so much to our lives. The photo shows the great love the two of you had for each other.
Anne and the passel of four-footeds (horses,dog, cats, raccoons, etc...
Posted by: Anne | January 27th, 2010 at 10:15 am
Dear Martha,
Our deepest condolences for Martyn, we know how it feels, the miss hurts the most. Thank you for giving him such a wonderful life in which he could express himself to beyond his capabilities,you are truly a Friend of the Horse! All the best, remember him for ever, cherish the moments you have shared.
"...and he rides his dreams across the sky...."
Lida & Arnold
Posted by: Fryslan Valley Sporthorses | January 27th, 2010 at 11:44 am
Dear Martha,
I am truly sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful boy...and the spirit of a horse is such a powerful force, the loss of one is devastating.
I wanted to share with you a forum on the subject of DSLD moderated by Dr. Eleanor Kellon. This forum offers a cutting edge treatment protocol pioneered by Dr. Kellon, as well as being a support group for owners of affected horses. You can access the group here:
http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/DSLD-equine/?yguid=160861824
One of the foremost equine nutrition experts in the country, Dr. Kellon also moderates forums on EPSM, PPID (Equine Cushing’s) and Insulin Resistance. In addition, she offers a number of very comprehensive online courses for horse owners and equine professionals alike.
Having your horse diagnosed with DSLD, EPSM, or PPID is heartbreaking, and can leave an owner feeling powerless. The knowledge offered here is empowering...
Again, my deepest sympathies.
Best,
Maria Siebrand
and the Herd at The Thoughtful Horseman
Posted by: Maria Siebrand | January 28th, 2010 at 12:44 am
So sorry for your terrible loss. We all understand and know the pain.
I would like to note that Celia Stock seems to write often on your blogs, and I really, really appreciate her poems!
She must be the most wonderful writer on here!
Thanks you, Celia.
Posted by: Nan | February 7th, 2010 at 2:18 pm
Martha,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My heart broke as I read about Martyn's passing. He was such a beautiful horse. Losing a beloved animal is heartbreaking, I know. I love your horses. I think they are the most magnificent horses I have ever seen. I can't imagine losing such a grand, majestic creature. I am sure you and your staff will miss him very much. Please accept my sincere and deepest sympathy. Cherish the memories. Also, I am so glad that Meindert is ok.
Posted by: Charlene | February 10th, 2010 at 9:10 pm
There is a famous horse who is named Willem, who used to say, 'This it be right'. We only have our horses for a brief time, and our job is to make their lives happy and their passing without suffering. RIP Martyn.
Posted by: slc2 | February 24th, 2010 at 9:09 am
Most say thay understand, they don't, I to lost my 16yr young American Saddlebred to a situation, where that it was decided held on for me, and I need to let him go, so he was put down. I have One more that I addore, she is not allowed to play outside without a good brushing and as she is reaching her 27th birthday, I am the only one who refuses to accept her age!! I would love to see an episode of your barn, horses, and explenation to others of the work involved. I am now on disability due to the Doctor not being able to control my seizures, while working I was amazed on how many people have never been exposed to horses and how much work it is when you take care of them your self. I would love to have a sanctuary where inner city and others could come and experience!Please let me know your thoughts!!
Posted by: Kathryn Kut | March 29th, 2010 at 2:07 pm
Hello Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about your Martyn. Besides my husband and two kids, I share my life with four dogs and the love of "my boyfriend" Waltzy. He is my oldenburg gelding, who makes my day a wonderful moment in heaven..... daily.
I know you must miss him dearly, but as you said, the only worse thing than missing them, is knowing one of our loved ones is in pain. He is dancing around, painfree now, and You are a wonderful mom, who did the right thing.
love to you
karen farmer
Temecula , CA
Posted by: karen Farmer | May 10th, 2010 at 7:20 pm
I was searching for charities and info on DSLD/ESPA when i came across this page. I am sorry to read this about your baby. I know how hard it must have been. My TB mare was diagnosed last week. It is so hard to decide what is right and how much is selfishness. She will be seeing a WSU Dr next week for ultrasounds and hopefully there will be no more bad news. I am happy to be broke as long as she is by my side. She means the world to me.
Posted by: Dacia | August 4th, 2010 at 9:37 pm